You think he's a hero, I think he realised getting a baby would mean staying with this woman for life.
I personally know at least 2 people whos got a girl pregnant when wearing a condom. There really isn't such a thing was completely safe. Even being on birth control don't always work. I personally don't know anyone and I mean anyone who would stand wearing condom with the same girl for that many years. It simply isn't sex or what sex feels like to me and I think they would agree.
However, you're right about the risk. Doing it for the stupid reason of just having a momentary good feeling is indeed stupid. If one knows the consequences and still goes on with it, he's gotta be ready to handle whatever happens.
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My thought exactly...
Temporary bliss for life time of burden don't jive with me.
I know a guy who has 3 kids with 3 different women and has the nerve to complain about it. Litterally too stupid to realize the basic.
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Also I think it's important to mention the age difference factor is playing a part here. I suppose both you and Osman are in your 20s, still going to college, etc... But let me tell you I'm actually proud of you for thinking that way. A lot of kids wouldn't been raised in such wrecked homes in utterly unstable parental conditions if more 20 some year olds thought just like you.
However, being a bit older and having lived in two continents where people in general are just sexual to the extreme and crazy shit will knock at your door at every turn, well, real life is kinda fucked. If I was to tell you half the stories I've heard from people my age or older you'd be impressed or even maybe disgusted by what people can achieve. And I'm not talking about just men, women are usually worse at this.