Maddy

Oracle of Copenhagen
Jul 10, 2009
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So, next week I'll probably have to go up against a co-worker, because she have done something very unprofessional. She's from the local area, my former boss and current trade union representative. But that's not the worst part. This will most certainly cost me the relation to a kid from my class and it really breaks my heart. I've been through so much with this kid and now, because some idiot can't separate work and private affairs, I'll have to be the professional one.
I'm in tears right now.
Man oh man. Dis is why women should never be in charge. Dey always get emotionally involved.

Anyways, I know your situation. Good luck with that. Pest eller kolera, your choice. But I'd say report the bitch if her friendship with the mom makes her professional relationship and ability to make sound decisions a liability.

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already suggested it to him in the other thread. Dude was being a dick. Totally his type of book and man (Ove).
 

Martin

Senior Member
Dec 31, 2000
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Man oh man. Dis is why women should never be in charge. Dey always get emotional involed.

Anyways, I know your situation. Good luck with that. Pest eller kolera, your choice. But I'd say report the bitch if her friendship with the mom makes her professional relationship and ability to make sound decisions a liability.

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already suggested it to him in the other thread. Dude was being a $#@!. Totally his type of book and man (Ove).
what book?
 

swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
84,776
Don't get me wrong I'm trying to put the whole picture together and see things from your angle. Never been into such situation so I'm questioning, not bashing and pointing finger at you.

But it's kinda fucked up when you say how you're doing the only right thing. Maybe you are. But that right thing is gonna bring so many negative things with it. You'll probably lose kids confidence and you're gonna fuck up your co-worker. Easy thing to do will bring the hardest and biggest burden onto your shoulders sadly.

Oh, and yeah, it wasn't professional of her. I was not defending the girl at any way.
The right thing is often the hard thing in the short term but the easier thing in the long term. Suffering is usually the avoidance of necessary pain.

You can't avoid Love. shocking i know, but i really mean it.
So what went wrong in my upbringing if i choose Love over company rules?
And what do you mean with "certain people"?

I don't wanna piss you off btw, just curious.
That kind of love is bs for the most part. You lose your job and your lover and your liver in a pool of hatred in under two years. :D
 

Fr3sh

Senior Member
Jul 12, 2011
37,254
That kind of love is bs for the most part. You lose your job and your lover and your liver in a pool of hatred in under two years. :D
@DAiDEViL pls dun do this to yourself bro, I noticed too....you fall in love every few weeks with some new random bushy brow'ed woman you find on the internet. Is not healthy, I think maybe @Völler could help you out, he's very easy to take too.
 

Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
39,337
Well, I got drunk. Talked with someone else from work and it seems like this isn't just one case. She's most definitely seeing another family in private. It all makes sense now. This cunt even agrees with me regarding these things, but she's doing exactly the opposite. But I never thought she would do something like this.

Btw- I'm not working with troubled kids. Think about this:
Your kid is getting bullied in class, but the teacher says it's bs. Then you find out that the teacher is seeing the bully's family in private. How would that make you feel?
I still say you're investing way too much emotionally. Fuck her. Either you report her or don't, but stop caring so much about things you can't do anything about.
 

Fr3sh

Senior Member
Jul 12, 2011
37,254
Been using windows all my life, want to try something new in macbook for study and streaming movies, any suggestions for which model?
I would wait until mid 2017 they're releasing new models, I just bought one recently with a heavy heart knowing new one was coming soon. The macbook pro's are nice, my last computer was that, lasted me over 6 years. Eventually replaced the hard drive with a solid slate drive and made it even better.
 

Klovn

#MakeTuzGreatAgain
Jul 28, 2011
21,859
I would wait until mid 2017 they're releasing new models, I just bought one recently with a heavy heart knowing new one was coming soon. The macbook pro's are nice, my last computer was that, lasted me over 6 years. Eventually replaced the hard drive with a solid slate drive and made it even better.
Can't wait that long :p

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have you already told your parents? How did they react?
If only, would have made life much easier. i'll ask them once i see them once a year
 

Wings

Banter era connoiseur
Contributor
Jul 15, 2002
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I would wait until mid 2017 they're releasing new models, I just bought one recently with a heavy heart knowing new one was coming soon. The macbook pro's are nice, my last computer was that, lasted me over 6 years. Eventually replaced the hard drive with a solid slate drive and made it even better.
I think the new Mac book pros might be released in next month. The question is if they will use skylake or kaby lake processors. Kaby lake us next gen focusing heavily on graphics.
 
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ßöмßäяðîëя
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    Glad to see this place is still alive with the sound of children's laughter.

    Oh, nevermind, my basement door was open.

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    Also, can someone PM me the password to the NATW thread?

    I have forgotten it over the last several years.
     

    Martin

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    ßöмßäяðîëя;5397704 said:
    Also, can someone PM me the password to the NATW thread?

    I have forgotten it over the last several years.
    it's better that you don't know

    if they catch you they won't be able to get it out of you
     

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