That's fair enough. But then lets look at objective measures? On most measures of quality of life, health outcomes, education, standard of living etc we were in the bottom half of countries in the Middle East. I would ask your friend also how its like to conduct business over there? because you cannot do that without strong relations with the state or some kind of kickbacks. We were one of the most socialist states in the world, 90% plus of jobs in Libya used to be for the state, over 50% of our GDP was from oil export revenues. We were the Arab Muslim version of Cuba and Venezuela. If 2011 hadn't happened, can you imagine what would have happened when oil prices fell in 2015, a collapse similar to Venezuela. Don't take my word for it, look at the numbers.
Its practically undebatable that we were an extremely poorly run country. Gedaffi had 42 years, surely he has to take a lot of blame regardless of how much foreign entities interfered or didnt.
Again, i am not denying at all Qatar/Turkey led factions in the West, and UAE, Saudi, Egypt, France and Russia supported Haftar in the East. They have all played a big part in how dysfunctional the situation is. But I am more interested in what Libyans do. Gedaffi's regime was terrible, and the current two factions with all their warlords have taken it two steps further and destroyed the country for generations. Neither is/was good for Libya.