lgorTudor

Senior Member
Jan 15, 2015
32,951
Sorry to hear, even if you aren't.

My father died earlier this morning, about an hour before you posted this, and I do care. But the guy was clearly at the end of his days and I feel blessed to have known him for as long as I did.

R.I.P., Dad. :heart:
fuck man sorry to hear, feel as much internet-hugged as possible.

Since we talk about these things my cousin who is his 40s is in the terminal stage of leukemia and he can't be helped anymore. How to deal with a beloved person in a situation when everybody knows he is going to die. I don't know
 

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DAiDEViL

Senior Member
Feb 21, 2015
65,229
fuck man sorry to hear, feel as much internet-hugged as possible.

Since we talk about these things my cousin who is his 40s is in the terminal stage of leukemia and he can't be helped anymore. How to deal with a beloved person in a situation when everybody knows he is going to die. I don't know
sorry to hear that man. fuck cancer. looking at my family history i'll get it aswell i suppose.

how to deal with it? weird feeling for sure - all you can do is be there i guess,
as cheesy as it sounds.

when my granny died (of course cancer - 2 weeks after getting the diagnose)
the whole family came together and everyone started crying. i had
to leave because i couldnt take it anymore.

i for my part didnt really feel it, until i realised it will be over soon.
sure, you hear the diagnose, you know its a few weeks at max, but
you somewhat refuse to believe it until you can't do so anymore.
 

Zé Tahir

JhoolayLaaaal!
Moderator
Dec 10, 2004
29,280
Sorry to hear, even if you aren't.

My father died earlier this morning, about an hour before you posted this, and I do care. But the guy was clearly at the end of his days and I feel blessed to have known him for as long as I did.

R.I.P., Dad.
Sorry for your loss Greg. May he rest in peace.
 

Salvo

J
Moderator
Dec 17, 2007
62,944
My grandmother just died (read it on Facebook, since I don't answer my phone). The sad part is that I don't care.
Sorry to hear, even if you aren't.

My father died earlier this morning, about an hour before you posted this, and I do care. But the guy was clearly at the end of his days and I feel blessed to have known him for as long as I did.

R.I.P., Dad. :heart:

Sorry to hear that guys.

My condolences.
fuck man sorry to hear, feel as much internet-hugged as possible.

Since we talk about these things my cousin who is his 40s is in the terminal stage of leukemia and he can't be helped anymore. How to deal with a beloved person in a situation when everybody knows he is going to die. I don't know
No good man, awful. At least he wont be suffering anymore.
 

Wings

Banter era connoiseur
Contributor
Jul 15, 2002
21,751
My grandmother just died (read it on Facebook, since I don't answer my phone). The sad part is that I don't care.
Sorry to hear, even if you aren't.

My father died earlier this morning, about an hour before you posted this, and I do care. But the guy was clearly at the end of his days and I feel blessed to have known him for as long as I did.

R.I.P., Dad.
My condolences guys. May both RIP.
 

Lapa

FLY, EAGLES FLY
Sep 29, 2008
20,053
Had a house warming party yesterday/today. It's 6 am, no fucking idea why I woke up already to clean up.

I have pretty big balcony, 15 m2 or something like that. And I have a glass table (not entirely glass but a glass on top), two chairs and a sofa there...well my table is without that glass from now on since my friend managed to fall/past out on it.

God damn that glass was heavy. It filled 3 plastic bags and it felt like it would have weight a ton....just managed to threw em away.

--

Happy Sunday it is! Wanna come to watch Juve with me @Martin
 

Bjerknes

"Top Economist"
Mar 16, 2004
116,863
Sorry to hear, even if you aren't.

My father died earlier this morning, about an hour before you posted this, and I do care. But the guy was clearly at the end of his days and I feel blessed to have known him for as long as I did.

R.I.P., Dad. :heart:
Condolences, Greg. I wish you and your family the best.
 

swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
84,916
Sorry Greg. Condolences for your loss.
May he rest in piece and look down on you with a dissaproving grin, if he is anything like my father :)
Sorry for your loss, Greg. May he rest in peace.

My father passed away 6 years ago which was in my early 20s, and to be honest life was scary in the first couple of years without him. Thankfully, he taught me never to be in a situation where I need help from anyone (even my uncles) and proudly didn't let him down.
Sorry to hear about your dad, Greg. RIP.
My condolences guys.
I am very sorry to hear that, Greg. Even if he was at the end of his days these things hit hard.
fuck man sorry to hear, feel as much internet-hugged as possible.

Since we talk about these things my cousin who is his 40s is in the terminal stage of leukemia and he can't be helped anymore. How to deal with a beloved person in a situation when everybody knows he is going to die. I don't know
Sorry for your loss Greg. May he rest in peace.
Sorry to hear that guys.

My condolences.


No good man, awful. At least he wont be suffering anymore.
My condolences guys. May both RIP.
Condolences, Greg. I wish you and your family the best.
I'm very sorry for your loss. My condolences.
my condolences Greg. stay strong bro.
Sorry to hear that. My condolences, Greg.
Sorry to hear that swag/greg/man.
Thank you very much for your kind words, guys. :dule: I'm not just saying that -- your responses and expressions of condolences are meaningful to me, so thank you.

For a long time I've known my dad didn't have much left on this earth, and so did he. Yesterday was still a very difficult day. He was a man from a more authoritarian time -- where "men were men" and there was never much time or space for mushy stuff, but I always knew where he stood the love was always there. Again, knowing so many people who haven't had fathers much in their life (my wife's father dying of cancer when she was just age 2 being one such example), I feel lucky and have much to be thankful for.

Drove to Santa Cruz, enjoyed a beautiful day along the ocean, and toasted a drink or two in his honor. :martini:
 

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