What Are You Doing Right Now? (156 Viewers)

[swag]

we will win the scudetto this season

And it took Rami until late January for his "Bye bye Milan" thread jinx.

http://forum.juventuz.com/showthread.php?9484-Bye-Bye-Milan...We-just-took-OFF!!

To me that is the heaven. Working as a manager in a coffee shop was heaven. It would be like a pain killer addict working in a pharmacy.

I'm drinking some right now. :coffee: And I hear ya.

But what I still don't understand is why Costa celebrates the Milanese coffee. Milan is arguably Italy's greatest underachiever when it comes to good coffee.

I dream of working at a Starbucks for this reason. Free coffee and being wired all day. Yes please.

You're in Toronto, Xtina... you have far better options than McCoffee.

 

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[Ford Prefect]

What's worse being gay or being homophobic?

That is a relatively simple question - Being homophobic is by far the worst, without a doubt even. Being attracted to the same sex is something that is natural to someone, so to be who you are seems only logical. Am I gay? Not that I am aware of, but if I were would it bother me - not one iota.

Homophobia is often attributed to a denial of ones own sexuality (numerous studies online - google it) or insecurities of your own masculinity/femininity, or you're just a massive arsehole. So for me to chose the option of a life of denial, unhapinness or insecurity over being who I am and living a happy life is just silly and I feel sorry for the people that have made that choice. When a friend comes out to me I feel happy that they are comfortable with who they are and have the confidence to be open about it with the people they care about.

It saddens me that people have said that being gay is worse than being homophobic.

Being gay, definitely.

Being gay

Read what I said an reconsider.

I'm drinking some right now. :coffee: And I hear ya.

But what I still don't understand is why Costa celebrates the Milanese coffee. Milan is arguably Italy's greatest underachiever when it comes to good coffee. :sergio

They don't do it anymore and its because the brothers that founded Costa are from Milan and when people think of Italy it will be a small number of things - Pizza, Pasta, Ancient Rome and Fashion. If you want to market a product based on a national brand image then of the four, Fashion would be the one to go for - Milan is the home of Italian fashion and the connotations that go along with Milan serve well as a brand image.

I in general disregard italian coffee in favour of south asian coffee but its bloody hard to get hold of in the UK, Civet Coffe is about $30 for 250gms. Given i use 7 gms per shot and 4 shots in a large cup of coffee that would be $30 for 9 cups of coffee. As it is i use a blend of arrabica and robusta.

 

[.zero]

surprised you made it to work this morning mang

I almost got into 3 fights last night

We're closing on the house this week and then moving in over the weekend but I'll def holla at you once all that is over come next week. Are you going back up to Chi for xmas/NYE?

 

[.zero]

That is a relatively simple question - Being homophobic is by far the worst, without a doubt even. Being attracted to the same sex is something that is natural to someone, so to be who you are seems only logical. Am I gay? Not that I am aware of, but if I were would it bother me - not one iota.

Homophobia is often attributed to a denial of ones own sexuality (numerous studies online - google it) or insecurities of your own masculinity/femininity, or your just a massive arsehole. So for me to chose the option of a life of denial, unhapinness or insecurity over being who I am and living a happy life then is just silly and I feel sorry for the people that have made that choice. When a friend comes out to me I feel happy that they are comfortable with who they are and have the confidence to be open about it with the people they care about.

It saddens me that people have said that being gay is worse than being homophobic.





Read what I said an reconsider.

I completely agree

ignorance/intolerance is always worse

 

[Kate]

That is a relatively simple question - Being homophobic is by far the worst, without a doubt even. Being attracted to the same sex is something that is natural to someone, so to be who you are seems only logical. Am I gay? Not that I am aware of, but if I were would it bother me - not one iota.

Homophobia is often attributed to a denial of ones own sexuality (numerous studies online - google it) or insecurities of your own masculinity/femininity, or your just a massive arsehole. So for me to chose the option of a life of denial, unhapinness or insecurity over being who I am and living a happy life is just silly and I feel sorry for the people that have made that choice. When a friend comes out to me I feel happy that they are comfortable with who they are and have the confidence to be open about it with the people they care about.

It saddens me that people have said that being gay is worse than being homophobic.

I guess I am looking at it from the perspective of the bullied instead of the bully. Neither one is pleasant to be, and I can't figure out which mindset is more difficult to change, being intolerant or being unhappy in who you are as a gay person. It is easier in many cases to be the bully, I think, especially when it doesn't come up very often, whereas being gay it comes up every day of your life.

 

[ALC]

I don't really care if someone is homophobic tbh, I've met too many of them that turn out to be great people. Can't judge someone based on that, especially seeing as gayness isn't really that mainstream, for lack of a better word.

 

[Kate]

I don't really care if someone is homophobic tbh, I've met too many of them that turn out to be great people. Can't judge someone based on that, especially seeing as gayness isn't really that mainstream, for lack of a better word.

That's ridiculous.

 

[GordoDeCentral]

I almost got into 3 fights last night

We're closing on the house this week and then moving in over the weekend but I'll def holla at you once all that is over come next week. Are you going back up to Chi for xmas/NYE?

mmh prolly not, plan is to go to houston for a couple of days, but i might decide to go home last minute.

 

[ALC]

@ Kate: *shrugs* Speaking from experience. I'm not saying they're better than gays, just that they're not bad people.

 

[Sheik Yerbouti]

Time to go home. After this match, I'm taking a break from the forum again. Lots of work to be done before the holiday closure at work.

 

[Ford Prefect]

I don't really care if someone is homophobic tbh, I've met too many of them that turn out to be great people. Can't judge someone based on that, especially seeing as gayness isn't really that mainstream, for lack of a better word.

Just

 

[ALC]

Just

for judging others.

 

[Kate]

@ Kate: *shrugs* Speaking from experience. I'm not saying they're better than gays, just that they're not bad people.

But do you have a problem with that kind of behaviour? You can like someone and still dislike some of their actions, but saying you don't have a problem with people being homophobic is horrible.

 

[Badass J Elkann]

I didn't really eat the stock at costa - chocolate twists fresh in the morning are amazing though - chuck them in the grill for a minute . I was just drinking coffee all day.

chocolate or the cheese twists yeah man you know it! and a cup of mocha in the mornings. That hit the spot! the benefits of opening up in the mornings even if the pay was shit compared to what starbucks paid general staff.

instead i get free instant coffee crap in the office now

 

[ALC]

I don't really mind it, it would be a lot better if there were no homophobes but oh well. Not really that big of a deal imo, it's not like they're harassing gay people on their spare time.

 

[GordoDeCentral]

before you all jump and lynch the guy, ask him what he means by the term. Jasp's is way too simplistic and cliche. It's a complex issue, that just cant be simplified.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

I have no homophobic friends

Wait... I didn't mean that

 

[Ford Prefect]

for judging others.

Judging others?

Everyone judges other people, we analyse & evaluate human behaviour and draw conclusions all the time - thats just being human.

I like to think I make my judgements fairly, based on research and understanding and I am always open to my views being challenged - research and challenge are two of the only ways to evolve ideologies.

You didn't make a reply to what I said you just said that people of a homophobic ideology are in general nice people. Any form of intollerance inherently demonstrates character flaws. If you can provide any evidence to sustain you argument that 'homophobes are nice people' then I will read it.

Until then -- .

 

[Kate]

before you all jump and lynch the guy, ask him what he means by the term. Jasp's is way too simplistic and cliche. It's a complex issue, that just cant be simplified.

Indeed, I am coming from a definition that means they would actively bully if given the chance, rather than casually use the term "fag" every now and again.

 

[Ford Prefect]

before you all jump and lynch the guy, ask him what he means by the term. Jasp's is way too simplistic and cliche. It's a complex issue, that just cant be simplified.

I don't how see how that issue gets more complex than how i've put it. He proposed it as a perfect circumstance model - spheres in a vacuum. If he posed it as 'you're living in saudi arabia and you have a choice be gay or be homophobic' then its a completely different set of circumstances but that isn't how the question was posed.