Ahh, I remember my early professional career where every peer was a potential threat and a rival to compete with. Such b.s.
Really, here's the thing to know: it's not about you. You're probably taking it personally, but it has nothing to do with you.
All the more reason to get your own independently and save the dick-measuring contests for the others. There's a lot more to life than a few taxable thousand a year to blow up your work situation and throw you into a rage.
maybe its just my Americanness but I don't understand why you are offended if she asked for a raise and you didn't. In my experience raises are not entirely about what you deserve but what you can get. I got a raise in my previous job because I demanded one and implied when asking that I would leave if i didn't get it. It worked.
This is why women earn less money than men because they often won't rock the boat to get it. They think it should just be handed to them on merit.
If you ask for the raise and still don't get it then yea I would be pissed.
Is there some lowkey way to check if a person is lesbian? I'm suspecting a kindergarden teacher of my kid might be one, as I saw her the other day with a woman friend, and I've absolutely given in to my curiosity and now I just have to know.