Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
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I don't get this. Probably the reason they pay her more than you is because she asked for it when being hired and you didn't, no? Why else would they pay her more?

Why not just tell them you are unhappy and want more money?

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I am an orthodontist but close enough. how can i help?
This wasn't when they were hiring her. They gave her a raise. I am going to ask for a raise now too, but the fact is they should have never given her a raise that went above my salary without giving me more, because I do more and more complicated work while winning more cases. It makes no sense.

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Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
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Ask for a better salary. If you're a rockstar lawyer they'll likely give it to you. If not, then fuck off to a competitor.

Good litigators quickly become well known in the field.

Lawyers can be fuckin rats, and if they don't give two shits about their most important assets (human resources) then it's definitely a red flag slapping you in the face telling you to jump ship.

Edit: just properly read your first post. Nvm about asking for a better salary, as they'll know your friend didn't keep her word on not telling anyone.

Try to get hired by a competitor, then when you get a better offer you tell your current boss about it and that you want to take it. You'll hold all the cards.
They wouldn't know because they are aware there are a few personal reasons that I need the money right now (building a house and starting a family).

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X Æ A-12

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Sep 4, 2006
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This wasn't when they were hiring her. They gave her a raise. I am going to ask for a raise now too, but the fact is they should have never given her a raise that went above my salary without giving me more, because I do more and more complicated work while winning more cases. It makes no sense.

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maybe its just my Americanness but I don't understand why you are offended if she asked for a raise and you didn't. In my experience raises are not entirely about what you deserve but what you can get. I got a raise in my previous job because I demanded one and implied when asking that I would leave if i didn't get it. It worked.

This is why women earn less money than men because they often won't rock the boat to get it. They think it should just be handed to them on merit.

If you ask for the raise and still don't get it then yea I would be pissed.
 

ALC

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Oct 28, 2010
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maybe its just my Americanness but I don't understand why you are offended if she asked for a raise and you didn't. In my experience raises are not entirely about what you deserve but what you can get. I got a raise in my previous job because I demanded one and implied when asking that I would leave if i didn't get it. It worked.

This is why women earn less money than men because they often won't rock the boat to get it. They think it should just be handed to them on merit.

If you ask for the raise and still don't get it then yea I would be pissed.
This. Seems very unreasonable for Seven to be upset they gave her more money if she asked for it, just because he makes less.
 

X Æ A-12

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So this young woman i was talking to last night had something weird about her voice. I was drunk so i assumed from her demaener, dress and odd way of talking that she was regular American trash. Had probably brought on brain damage from years of meth abuse.

It took me like 10 minutes to realize she wasn't a meth head she was just Scottish.
 

ColloRosso

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Jul 16, 2018
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So this young woman i was talking to last night had something weird about her voice. I was drunk so i assumed from her demaener, dress and odd way of talking that she was regular American trash. Had probably brought on brain damage from years of meth abuse.

It took me like 10 minutes to realize she wasn't a meth head she was just Scottish.

years of meth abuse vs years of single malt abuse :lol2:
 

AFL_ITALIA

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Jun 17, 2011
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I could and I'd probably get more money. My friend said she knew they'd give me more than her, simply because I win much bigger cases than her. And she's probably right.

But it's a matter of principle as well. They're apparently fine with ripping me off. The only reason I know is the girl and I are friends.

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Burn it down. I can't wait to do the same :tuttosport:
 

GordoDeCentral

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Apr 14, 2005
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So this young woman i was talking to last night had something weird about her voice. I was drunk so i assumed from her demaener, dress and odd way of talking that she was regular American trash. Had probably brought on brain damage from years of meth abuse.

It took me like 10 minutes to realize she wasn't a meth head she was just Scottish.
Is all meth use meth abuse?
 

Wittl

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Had a Beyond Meat sausage yesterday on a hot dog bun. Was actually pretty good, better than their ground beef.
I've barbecued a "mexican bean burger" on friday. Loved it too.

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On the way. Normal. Somewhere near Hannover. Germany. But who cares. Whataever.
There are nice whorehouses in Germany with nice polish girls. Go for it!
 
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Is there some lowkey way to check if a person is lesbian? I'm suspecting a kindergarden teacher of my kid might be one, as I saw her the other day with a woman friend, and I've absolutely given in to my curiosity and now I just have to know. :D
 

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