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Not willing? Exactly, there lies your problem Liliana. You can't except that you are wrong (not saying always, but the majority of the accusations is true). In a community that can be a very destructive concept. Pride, stubborness or childness won't get you anywhere. Not here and especially not in real life.
A nice example of that is when you go kissing up all the people who give you the support but when one just slightly says that you are maybe wrong or not even mention you but say something against your beliefs you get all offended (sally inzaghi's post and your discussion with her afterwards says it all)
1. you are the queen of off topicing, although we mentioned several times that that is NOT WELCOME here or at least not in threads outside the Hangout forum; just the other day somebody said Hi to you in the CL thread and off you were chit-chating instead of replying to that 'Hi' with a PM;
2. you are ignorant about football and that is a fact and that is a bit of a problem since this is a football forum; and it doesn't look like you want to learn more about it either, because you only see things from your point of view; neither do you really try and understand things and usually just post an ignorant comment which in most of the times is wrong anyway; maybe that's your age maybe it is not, I don't know, but if you don't know something you should just ask and not go on commenting something that you don't know and then you have all the people on your back and you can't even defend properly ... by this I mean write back why you think so and so and give proper reasons and not back-fire with a 'fvck you' ... there's an old saying - if you don't know the rules, don't play the game; I understand that you can't know everything right from the start, but you have been here quite a while now;
3. THIS IN NO WAY IS MEANT AS MOCKING - I noticed that you have an 'understanding of english' problem and things can get tricky when a language barrier sets in; that's why I think that sometimes your understanding of things is seen harsher than it really is, hence then your firely reply and a war on the zone; that's also to be considered, not only by you but by all the members of the forum, especially by the ones who's mother tongue is english;
4. you are passionate; nothing wrong with that, I too am quite hot-blooded, but one has to learn how to control him/herself;
A nice example of that is when you go kissing up all the people who give you the support but when one just slightly says that you are maybe wrong or not even mention you but say something against your beliefs you get all offended (sally inzaghi's post and your discussion with her afterwards says it all)
1. you are the queen of off topicing, although we mentioned several times that that is NOT WELCOME here or at least not in threads outside the Hangout forum; just the other day somebody said Hi to you in the CL thread and off you were chit-chating instead of replying to that 'Hi' with a PM;
2. you are ignorant about football and that is a fact and that is a bit of a problem since this is a football forum; and it doesn't look like you want to learn more about it either, because you only see things from your point of view; neither do you really try and understand things and usually just post an ignorant comment which in most of the times is wrong anyway; maybe that's your age maybe it is not, I don't know, but if you don't know something you should just ask and not go on commenting something that you don't know and then you have all the people on your back and you can't even defend properly ... by this I mean write back why you think so and so and give proper reasons and not back-fire with a 'fvck you' ... there's an old saying - if you don't know the rules, don't play the game; I understand that you can't know everything right from the start, but you have been here quite a while now;
3. THIS IN NO WAY IS MEANT AS MOCKING - I noticed that you have an 'understanding of english' problem and things can get tricky when a language barrier sets in; that's why I think that sometimes your understanding of things is seen harsher than it really is, hence then your firely reply and a war on the zone; that's also to be considered, not only by you but by all the members of the forum, especially by the ones who's mother tongue is english;
4. you are passionate; nothing wrong with that, I too am quite hot-blooded, but one has to learn how to control him/herself;
all those whys will never bring you a proper anwer.
you think i NEVER questioned the same exact things??
for God's sake!
NEVER!!!!!!! better becaome a manchester u and real's fan in the same time!
if you are talking about me,believe me,i won't be "sacrificed" for noone
i'll be here for as long as I (and of caurse martin)want and not as long as the others do.
you know i don't give a shit anyway for other's opinions
yes,it seems some ppl hate me to such a point that can't live without me anymore.don't you know that the line between love and hate is sooooo small??
i will do nothing more to convince them.
some ppl accuse me to stubborn headed,but it seems they can't make out their minds and put me in the ingore list
you think i NEVER questioned the same exact things??
for God's sake!
NEVER!!!!!!! better becaome a manchester u and real's fan in the same time!
if you are talking about me,believe me,i won't be "sacrificed" for noone
i'll be here for as long as I (and of caurse martin)want and not as long as the others do.
you know i don't give a shit anyway for other's opinions
yes,it seems some ppl hate me to such a point that can't live without me anymore.don't you know that the line between love and hate is sooooo small??
i will do nothing more to convince them.
some ppl accuse me to stubborn headed,but it seems they can't make out their minds and put me in the ingore list
seems i am irresistable
if my problem is that,and now that i heard it once again,now i feel great.you just conviced me even more to keep my problem for ever,and make *some ppl* able to live with it
maybe i used to be -but i am not anymore
i am ignorant in general.consider it a bad habit!
and when did i say fvck you nina??
i have, i know.but those stupid problems started not long time ago,so i think it's not because "i don't know the rulez" as you wrongly said!
really? ah,sorry for not being English or American.i'll see what i can do about that :thumb:
now that you are also ok with that,i can promise i will be even more passionate.
and 1 last thing.don't try to make me feel guilty or wrong about ANYTHING.
i think you just saw yourself is pointless trying to change me.i think that a few of you having problem with me should just try to "stand" my nice personality and not make the things worse.cause even if i said some things i didn't want to say-i owe them to all of you who don't like me.
so blame yourself for this fvcked situation here and not me! :thumb:
unfortunatelly i haven't yet,but i plan to do it!
if my problem is that,and now that i heard it once again,now i feel great.you just conviced me even more to keep my problem for ever,and make *some ppl* able to live with it
maybe i used to be
-but i am not anymorei am ignorant in general.consider it a bad habit!
and when did i say fvck you nina??
i have, i know.but those stupid problems started not long time ago,so i think it's not because "i don't know the rulez" as you wrongly said!
really? ah,sorry for not being English or American.i'll see what i can do about that :thumb:
now that you are also ok with that,i can promise i will be even more passionate.
and 1 last thing.don't try to make me feel guilty or wrong about ANYTHING.
i think you just saw yourself is pointless trying to change me.i think that a few of you having problem with me should just try to "stand" my nice personality and not make the things worse.cause even if i said some things i didn't want to say-i owe them to all of you
who don't like me.so blame yourself for this fvcked situation here and not me! :thumb:
unfortunatelly i haven't yet,but i plan to do it!
You didn't understand one single point of my post Liliana, not one. 
I think there are more than just 20 Lili, the majority of the forum has, on occasion, found one or more of your posts to be disrespectful or ignorant. I don't know if you're trying to gain support by "standing up to the mods" or in this case being plain disrespectul and arrogant but please just get a grip and sort yourself out, lose this notion of yours that you're the innocent little victim and you might just see out the week.
After reading like the first five pages of this thread, I agree with almost everything that Sergio said. You just gotta think before you act, and be responsible of whatever you do without needing people to back you up. If you say Lilianna doesnt know anything about football, hell I know less of the half that you people do here, and so far I havent really had problems with anyone (I think) because you gotta know your limitations, and dont do/say stuff that would piss you off if someone said the same thing to you. If you expect respect, then be the first one to give it.
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you are saying those...things because you are on nina's side,i totally realize that.
but,wait,to say that the majority of the forum dislike me...this definitelly doesn't make ANY sense.
i am not the innocent little victim,FFS,i will never ever admit smg like this because this is not true.
i'll be pityful if i will start thinking about myself that i am a little innocent victim.and i respect and love myself too much to admit smg like this.strange you haven't realized it yet mister know it all.
I don't know if you're trying to gain support by "standing up to the mods" or in this case being plain disrespectul and arrogant
and what's this stupid line here?
now you really seem to know what am i doing and "pretend" to know me?
because only someone who knows me can judge me,and it seems,thanx god,you don't know me at all.
i disagree with the mods,and i am talking the way i do,not like they are mods here,but as equal to equal.
qho doesn't like me here and doesn't repsect me,don't expect me do the same thing just because "he is a mod"
cause i don't really have any troubles with other mods,and especially not with martin,who is much more logical than you and nina.
and he doesn't have problems with me,as he said by himself.
but,wait,to say that the majority of the forum dislike me...this definitelly doesn't make ANY sense.
i am not the innocent little victim,FFS,i will never ever admit smg like this because this is not true.
i'll be pityful if i will start thinking about myself that i am a little innocent victim.and i respect and love myself too much to admit smg like this.strange you haven't realized it yet mister know it all.
I don't know if you're trying to gain support by "standing up to the mods" or in this case being plain disrespectul and arrogant
and what's this stupid line here?
now you really seem to know what am i doing and "pretend" to know me?
because only someone who knows me can judge me,and it seems,thanx god,you don't know me at all.
i disagree with the mods,and i am talking the way i do,not like they are mods here,but as equal to equal.
qho doesn't like me here and doesn't repsect me,don't expect me do the same thing just because "he is a mod"
cause i don't really have any troubles with other mods,and especially not with martin,who is much more logical than you and nina.
and he doesn't have problems with me,as he said by himself.
The arguement is basically almost one of semantics now.
But to answer Alessandro10's question to which he is treating like the QUESTION of all questions..I politely, respectfully and BLUNTLY respond:
I don't put people on my ignore list for the same reason I don't avoid looking in the toilet bowl after taking a "dump."
But to answer Alessandro10's question to which he is treating like the QUESTION of all questions..I politely, respectfully and BLUNTLY respond:
I don't put people on my ignore list for the same reason I don't avoid looking in the toilet bowl after taking a "dump."
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