++ [ originally posted by sallyinzaghi ] ++
Lili, please bear in mind that I am not against you nor am I with those who are "against" you, but I just want to state my POV on this. Hey, it's a free world, no?
That's all fine Lili, if you don't have the 'will' to change that is your choice and you are who you are, but if you choose to do so, then don't complain about people's harshness to you. Obviously some people have trouble adapting to who you are, and if you don't want to change to adapt or deal with them, that's fine, but don't make a brag or complain when people are harsh to you. You are given the choice to try to change to at least avoid all these, or if you refuse to do so, these things will come in your way. Deal with it, you chose to do so.
We're not trying to make you feel guilty or wrong. There are fairly reasonable people here, if we're wrong we admit it. And just consider this for one moment, maybe you ARE in the wrong side? Just consider it.
Lili, posts like these calls for trouble. and when it comes, you sometimes complain about it. Please don't, as Sergio was very reasonable in saying that you take consenquences for your posts.
Lili, please bear in mind that I am not against you nor am I with those who are "against" you, but I just want to state my POV on this. Hey, it's a free world, no?
That's all fine Lili, if you don't have the 'will' to change that is your choice and you are who you are, but if you choose to do so, then don't complain about people's harshness to you. Obviously some people have trouble adapting to who you are, and if you don't want to change to adapt or deal with them, that's fine, but don't make a brag or complain when people are harsh to you. You are given the choice to try to change to at least avoid all these, or if you refuse to do so, these things will come in your way. Deal with it, you chose to do so.
We're not trying to make you feel guilty or wrong. There are fairly reasonable people here, if we're wrong we admit it. And just consider this for one moment, maybe you ARE in the wrong side? Just consider it.
Lili, posts like these calls for trouble. and when it comes, you sometimes complain about it. Please don't, as Sergio was very reasonable in saying that you take consenquences for your posts.
