What I find amazing here is this. How many people can you name have confessed that Christianity has destroyed their lives and has transformed them into depressed, hostile, and angry human beings?
People who take drugs usually don't complain about the drugs while they're taking them, do they? Quite the opposite, they say what a fantastic ride it is.
Now how many poeple can you name have confessed that Christianity gave meaning, love, virtue, hope, and happiness to their lives and has transformed them into loving human beings?
I would submit, however, that none of those people really took it seriously in the sense that I described. A little christianity isn't particularly harmful, otherwise the effects upon society would be very noticeable. But that is just the corollary, people
don't really believe all that stuff, because it's irrational.
And irrational beliefs are harmful. So if you believe the good ones (Jesus loves me) and ignore the harmful ones (I'm under constant surveillance, not even my thoughts are free), then it's a bit like kids who have an imaginary friend. It's a fantasy, but it's a positive one.
The fact of the matter is simple, Christianity promotes beautiful values in life such as forgiveness, love, mercy, kindness etc..
Yes, using the threat of force. Or more importantly, guilt. Do this or else. This is the essence of Christianity.
Imagine the Bible saying this," Okay, look, you can be good and bad, but I would prefer you to be good, so do me a favour and please be a good person". Remember that God is addressing the entire world here, and a universal human attribute is response to certainty and assertiveness far more than leniancy and softness.
My biggest criticism isn't the threat of force, it's the deception, and the absurd logic that is supposed to justify it. Be good, or else you're going to hell. But god loves you, he would never do anything to hurt you. But he will definitely send you to hell.
And do you know how I know men invented this? Because when guys like Stalin ruled they were saying the exactly same things. Stalin is the father of our nation, he is a comrade, he loves you. But he will definitely send you to Siberia if someone overhears you criticizing the government.
If a couple had a kid and raised their son based on striict moral values and beliefs and also resorted to old fashioned punishment and supreme discipline.
Now imagine that same couple had a kid and raised him with utmost leniancy, letting him pee on the neighbourse lawn, hitting girls, cursing at people etc...
Which approach do you think will produce a well-mannered and respected man in society?
If so, let's just tell it like it is. You're a slave to god, and he wants absolute obedience. Why do you think that message wouldn't sell? Why, because telling the truth is less useful for a dictator than deception.
You see God as this harsh and hateful human being, but really many parents act this way towards their own children, this does not mean that God is unjust and hateful.
Are you kidding? Have you seen that graph that says "number of people killed in the bible, god vs the devil"? Do you have any idea of the blind carnage that happens in the bible? Only a psychopath could find those tales heartwarming. And this is supposed to be the book to set the moral standard?