My side? I don't give a sh*t. Humans have existed for tens of thousands of years without segregated bathrooms. The foundational concept is a relatively dumb idea we're still stuck with only in some crazy person's idea of modernity. Unless you're using it for privacy to expose your naughty bits for whatever strange reason you might have, the issue isn't security but rather one of privacy.
And if people need privacy for changing kids diapers or putting on their Superman costume, address that. It's not about which side of your crotch faces the tinkle hole.
That's what a republic does versus a democracy, right? You establish a baseline of minimum viable decent treatment of fellow humans. And if you don't meet those standards, it's not a popularity contest to put up to a vote.