Gay Adoption (9 Viewers)

PhRoZeN

Livin with Mediocre
Mar 29, 2006
17,259
What about balance? Where did I say anything opposing to balance or moderation?
You didnt. I mean a balance by having one of each, a male and female parent is surely something should be encouraged. So two lesbians might provide more affection and care, but they would like the qualities a man could generally provide and vice versa. Having a balance would help promote the lack of upbringing or character building that you may find prevalent amongst what is the norm.
 

JCK

Biased
JCK
May 11, 2004
125,418
You didnt. I mean a balance by having one of each, a male and female parent is surely something should be encouraged. So two lesbians might provide more affection and care, but they would like the qualities a man could generally provide and vice versa. Having a balance would help promote the lack of upbringing or character building that you may find prevalent amongst what is the norm.
Ahh...the norm. That's where it all ends and it is not proven that what is different than the norm does not function just as good, if not better.
 
Sep 1, 2002
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You didnt. I mean a balance by having one of each, a male and female parent is surely something should be encouraged. So two lesbians might provide more affection and care, but they would like the qualities a man could generally provide and vice versa. Having a balance would help promote the lack of upbringing or character building that you may find prevalent amongst what is the norm.
As you are a red bloody hetrosexual male, what qualities would you bring to nurturing a child?
 

AndreaCristiano

Nato, Vive, e muore Italiano
Jun 9, 2011
19,471
You didnt. I mean a balance by having one of each, a male and female parent is surely something should be encouraged. So two lesbians might provide more affection and care, but they would like the qualities a man could generally provide and vice versa. Having a balance would help promote the lack of upbringing or character building that you may find prevalent amongst what is the norm.
Good post, be careful though they may put you on the time machine with us because according to them were backwards
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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You didnt. I mean a balance by having one of each, a male and female parent is surely something should be encouraged. So two lesbians might provide more affection and care, but they would like the qualities a man could generally provide and vice versa. Having a balance would help promote the lack of upbringing or character building that you may find prevalent amongst what is the norm.
The point of this adoption thing is that these kids don't have the choice of a mom and dad. Kids who are adopted come from the streets, orphanages (which tend to be very abusive) or broken homes. A gay couple as parents isn't the worst thing to happen to them. At least the kids are actually wanted by these parents.
 

PhRoZeN

Livin with Mediocre
Mar 29, 2006
17,259
As you are a red bloody hetrosexual male, what qualities would you bring to nurturing a child?
Im not a father yet. :D Discipline, Hearing whats being said, rather than listening to their mother just nagging, being subjective, sets guidelines, Role Model, good provider, teacher, integrity, tough but fair, children feel protected (physically, psychologically), not afraid to own up to ones mistake, respect women, brave and not violating childs trust, responsible, self control and restraint and so on. Thats not to say the mother wouldnt bring many of them but some of them a man is so much better in than a woman.
 

JCK

Biased
JCK
May 11, 2004
125,418
Im not a father yet. :D Discipline, Hearing whats being said, rather than listening to their mother just nagging, being subjective, sets guidelines, Role Model, good provider, teacher, integrity, tough but fair, children feel protected (physically, psychologically), not afraid to own up to ones mistake, respect women, brave and not violating childs trust, responsible, self control and restraint and so on. Thats not to say the mother wouldnt bring many of them but some of them a man is so much better in than a woman.
Which ones?
 

PhRoZeN

Livin with Mediocre
Mar 29, 2006
17,259
The point of this adoption thing is that these kids don't have the choice of a mom and dad. Kids who are adopted come from the streets, orphanages (which tend to be very abusive) or broken homes. A gay couple as parents isn't the worst thing to happen to them. At least the kids are actually wanted by these parents.
Adopting is an admirable thing. I can understand that. However I dont know whats worse of the two.
 

Zlatan

Senior Member
Jun 9, 2003
23,049
The point of this adoption thing is that these kids don't have the choice of a mom and dad. Kids who are adopted come from the streets, orphanages (which tend to be very abusive) or broken homes. A gay couple as parents isn't the worst thing to happen to them. At least the kids are actually wanted by these parents.

Exactly, well said.
 

JCK

Biased
JCK
May 11, 2004
125,418
Adopting is an admirable thing. I can understand that. However I dont know whats worse of the two.
Worse? You haven't told us what is bad about gay parents, you just said that balance is good and rated it in the negative. May we know why the low grade?
 

Enron

Tickle Me
Moderator
Oct 11, 2005
75,709
First off there should be a 100 question test before one is allowed to even ponder reproduction. If you miss one question, you can't have kids.

After that I could care less who has children. Any form of a family is better for a child than growing up in a group home, orphanage, foster care, on the streets. Whatever.

As for the "who can you fuck and it still be legal" evasion, you can fuck whatever you want but some shit ain't gonna be with the societal flavor.

Just a interesting side note. In some Southern states, it is still considered to be sodomy when sex is engaged in, in any method other than vaginal and missionary. Falatio and cuninlingus are both off the menu.
 

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