Im talking about the bigger problem, leaving these kids to be adopted in the first place. In countries like Afhanistan, you will find that most people find it hard to look after their children, simply because they have died (due to number of things, wars, higher mortality rate, lower life expectancy and so on) Whilst coming more closer to home, you will find that most kids aint orphan, but kids whose parents decided, "shit I didnt expect this" "cant be assed" or "fuck thats one ugly kid", sort of mentalities.