Gay Adoption (9 Viewers)

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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Im talking about the bigger problem, leaving these kids to be adopted in the first place. In countries like Afhanistan, you will find that most people find it hard to look after their children, simply because they have died (due to number of things, wars, higher mortality rate, lower life expectancy and so on) Whilst coming more closer to home, you will find that most kids aint orphan, but kids whose parents decided, "shit I didnt expect this" "cant be assed" or "fuck thats one ugly kid", sort of mentalities.
Maybe so. And if these kids have a chance for a better life, why should they be denied because of the adopters' sexual orientation?
 

swag

L'autista
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Sep 23, 2003
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The ratio of gays to straights is probably similar the world over, just that some places are more open to homosexuality and people don't have to hide their orientation. I mean, who's gonna admit to being gay in Afghanistan?
One of the most interesting things I've learned about AIDS was how much it was a disease that attacked a country's social mores more than anything else. Countries like Uganda that quickly cut through social hang-ups to discuss and address things openly did a surprisingly amazing job keeping a lot of people, gay and straight, from being killed.

Countries that kept it in the closet with too many social taboos and hang-ups, like South Africa, had it ravage their population and economies.

This was a case where people literally died -- gay and straight -- as a result of their society's sexual hang-ups.
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
66,976
One of the most interesting things I've learned about AIDS was how much it was a disease that attacked a country's social mores more than anything else. Countries like Uganda that quickly cut through social hang-ups to discuss and address things openly did a surprisingly amazing job keeping a lot of people, gay and straight, from being killed.

Countries that kept it in the closet with too many social taboos and hang-ups, like South Africa, had it ravage their population and economies.
I thought Uganda was one of those places where you keep your secrets to yourself.
 

swag

L'autista
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Sep 23, 2003
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I thought Uganda was one of those places where you keep your secrets to yourself.
But they, as a matter of policy, overcame that. They -- a poor central African country -- figured out that their social mores and sexual hangups were going to be a cause for their society to ultimately kill themselves if they left it that way.

The point here being that this is a case where a society that wished to remain in the closet and in ignorance that homosexuality existed among their population risked a higher incidence of death because of it. You could be as straight as an arrow, but your sexual partners could transmit it and the disease basically preys upon societies that live in denial and cover-up. Social acknowledgement can be a factor in personal life or death.
 

AndreaCristiano

Nato, Vive, e muore Italiano
Jun 9, 2011
19,471
But they, as a matter of policy, overcame that. They -- a poor central African country -- figured out that their social mores and sexual hangups were going to be a cause for their society to ultimately kill themselves if they left it that way.

The point here being that this is a case where a society that wished to remain in the closet and in ignorance that homosexuality existed among their population risked a higher incidence of death because of it. You could be as straight as an arrow, but your sexual partners could transmit it and the disease basically preys upon societies that live in denial and cover-up.
Yes but no one is talking about hiding or pretending that homosexuality doesn't exist
 

swag

L'autista
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Sep 23, 2003
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Yes but no one is talking about hiding or pretending that homosexuality doesn't exist
Not with you or a few others per se. But several pages back, that was absolutely the case with some members.

Aaron made an interesting point that bringing up this subject was like adding gasoline to fire in societies where the topic of homosexuality is taboo. Dusan and I got into a debate because the last evil he needed to see on this earth was two guys together with a stroller in his country.

What makes AIDS an interesting case to me is that it's a biological vector that seems optimized to prey on "closed" societies. It's like Darwinism on a social/cultural level rather than at a species level... i.e., is a society with social hang-ups and taboos about some realities of society, such as homosexuality, more prone to its own extinction as a result of its collective social mores?

It's a legitimate, and I think fascinating, question.
 

AndreaCristiano

Nato, Vive, e muore Italiano
Jun 9, 2011
19,471
Not with you or a few others per se. But several pages back, that was absolutely the case with some members.

Aaron made an interesting point that bringing up this subject was like adding gasoline to fire in societies where the topic of homosexuality is taboo. Dusan and I got into a debate because the last evil he needed to see on this earth was two guys together with a stroller in his country.

What makes AIDS an interesting case to me is that it's a biological vector that seems optimized to prey on "closed" societies. It's like Darwinism on a social/cultural level rather than at a species level... i.e., is a society with social hang-ups and taboos about some realities of society, such as homosexuality, more prone to its own extinction as a result of its collective social mores?

It's a legitimate, and I think fascinating, question.
Well then I see your point. I did not know or read those posts
 

ALC

Ohaulick
Oct 28, 2010
46,651
I wonder why threads about gay people and religion get so many responses. They're both weird/gross but as long as people keep em to themselves it shouldn't really concern anyone.
 

swag

L'autista
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Sep 23, 2003
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Well then I see your point. I did not know or read those posts
It's also a bit of a chilling, almost science-fiction-like concept. Because it suggests governments could develop biological weapons that are optimized to take out populations based on their cultural mores and belief systems.

To get extra diabolical, in a case like much of Europe where they're struggling with multiculturalism, it means a government could potentially even target distinct social groups within national borders.
 

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