I'm not sure I entirely understand your point I'm afraid.
The very same people are arguing this:
1) god is all powerful, we must surrender to him
2) Israel is completely overpowering, and yet we must fight back
If you reject one dictatorship, why not all? If you submit to one ruler, why not all?
Now wait a minute, I'm not saying that if one could be born gay, God wants him to act like a gay man. We each have our cross to bear remember.
Maybe then God shouldn't have fucking made him gay, huh? "If god makes a cat, that doesn't mean he wants him to act like a cat".
I know atheists will generally claim that one is born gay, but I'm not entirely sure of that either. It's not such an easy subject, because a lot of lesbian action groups have actually claimed that one chooses to be a lesbian and we also see people in jails "becoming" gay. I would not quite say that it is scientific fact that one is born gay yet.
It doesn't even matter. What matters is that god, the asshole that he is, made him gay. He CREATED the whole problem. So what we need to do is help gay people, not spit at them for being something that god made them.