i know i should'nt post this specially that no matter what i do u will never understand but i will give this a try may be just may be u understand this time. it has to be noted i have been warned before hand that it might not even work with u seven but here is hoping it does:
Islam
Main article: Zina (Arabic)
Under Muslim law, adultery (extramarital sex in general) is sexual intercourse by a person (whether man or woman) with someone to whom they are not married. Adultery is a violation of the marital contract and one of the major sins and is condemned by God in the Qur'an. Zina means consensual premarital sex.
Qur'anic verses prohibiting adultery include:
"Do not go near to adultery. Surely it is a shameful deed and evil, opening roads (to other evils)" (Quran 17:32).
"Say, 'Verily, my Lord has prohibited the shameful deeds, be it open or secret, sins and trespasses against the truth and reason"' (Quran 7:33).
"Women impure are for men impure, and men impure are for women impure and women of purity are for men of purity, and men of purity are for women of purity." (Quran 24:26)
Though strict Muslim law prescribes severe punishments for extramarital sex, by both men and women (premarital sex is punishable with up to 100 lashes, while adultery is punishable by stoning), to obtain conviction of zina [consensual premarital sex], the act of sexual penetration must be attested by at least four male Muslim witnesses of good character, with the accused having a right to testify and their testimony given the most weight in the eyes of the judge(s). Also, punishments are reserved to the legal authorities and false accusations are to be punished severely.[24][25]
It has been said that these legal procedural requirements were instituted to make it impossible to obtain conviction.[26] (It should be noted that the above punishment of stoning is never given in the Quran but only in the Hadith. The only punishment for adultery given in the Quran is one hundred lashes and restriction of future marriage to another adulterer or the partner in the act).
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Adultery#Islam
this is part of my religion, and when u become a muslim u have to accept them or else u r free not to become a muslim. to make it easier for u, u have to respect the law in belgium no matter how retarded it may sound too u, if u dont u can always move some where, where the law suits u.