if you need range: go hybrid
for urban use: get an electric
that's the simple version. my electric owner colleagues/buddies all say that the range is a real issue. if they are about to take a longer trip, then they either plan it according to the location of the chargers (wtf), or if they have an internal combustion car, they use that one instead. and you have to consider shit you have never imagined with a petrol/diesel. for example a colleague commutes with a hyundai ioniq, something like this:
dunno exactly which battery pack he has, but the range is ~250-300 without using the climate control, closer to ~150 with climate control lol. (for comparison my old dinosaur has a range of ~850-900 km if i'm careful, ~750 if i'm pushing it, and whether the climate control is on or off is completely unnoticeable.) we have some golf e's at my workplace too. if we have some stuff to do at an other site which is at 55 km, and we use the climate control, then we have to charge the fucking thing to be safe with the range. my buddy who owns a bmw i3s confirms this, but he doesn't care since he drives it only within budapest, and he can always recharge the car in his garage, so he doesn't mind whether the car has to be recharged every 2-3 days (with climate) or 5-6 days (without heating/cooling).
playing music or using the navigation is fine, but heating/cooling takes a massive toll on the range. i could probably never get used to this.
hybrids are fine to use unless you really are conscious about your carbon footprint. toyota/lexus hybrids are very reliable, the only annoyance is the gearbox which makes the engine rev high every time you want to accelerate. kia/hyundai and honda learning curves are less steep when it comes to gearboxes. as far as i know reliability isn't an issue with kia's and they also have a long warranty. i have a friend who drives a kia sportage hybrid, he loves the uggo car to death. i don't know too much about honda hybrids' long term reliability, i just tried a civic, looked sterile like most modern cars lol, pretty refined otherwise. you can't probably buy suzuki's in the us, but if you can and don't mind their models, take a look at them, the eu models are surprisingly fun to drive. merc's that i've tried had ridiculously small electric packs, i wouldn't even call them a hybrid. audi's have electric issues based on a few friends' experience. one guy returned a hybrid a6 and went for a diesel instead; we used that car for our recent trip to verona, zero complaints, excellent car. dunno about bmw's at all.