IliveForJuve

Burn this club
Jan 17, 2011
18,923
I don't see a problem with it. She's young and likes sex, big deal. Wouldn't care one bit as long as she doesn't cheat on me while i'm with her. Big lol at the parents part. Do you need their approval?
Of course I don't need their approval, silly. It's just a way of saying I would probably not get in a long term relationship with someone like that.
 

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DAiDEViL

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Feb 21, 2015
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Of course I don't need their approval, silly. It's just a way of saying I would probably not get in a long term relationship with someone like that.
She might have seen enough dicks by now and is ready for something serious. Holding it against her that she fucked around alot is kinda silly imo. If it was you in place of her, you'd boast about it.
 

Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,488
Only if they recreate the champagne scene from "My Beautiful Laundrette".



Why do you ask that? I see that in your profile says 31yo, you could show that you are that age, starting by using other rhetorical resources to try to offend me. Using age to feel superior and more intelligent is an obsolete resource and it doesn't work with me. The only one who is being ridiculous here is you, acting that way.
I would appreciate it if you put me on your ignored list if you are affected so much by my personal opinions. I notice you too annoyed simply because I said I don't like a certain cultural convention.
But first let me explain why my opinion. What is the meaning of spending hours crying the corpse of a loved one inside a coffin? What's supposed to symbolize that? The duel? Duel is an internal process that each person does for himself. A funeral doesn't measure the love you feel for that person, and you don't have to prove anything to anyone. Also, in that coffin there is no person, there is only a human body, and you aren't honoring the person with that ritual either. It really seems to me something masochistic and sick, yes. I didn't know that it was "egocentric", God.
And your argument is totally ridiculous. If that seems fair to you, then I can say that punishment and torture continue to be carried out in some cultures.

Now please, put me in ignored, adult person.
I rarely agree with Seven, but this is such a terrible frigging post.

It's NOT about you and your feelings on "outdated" ritual. Depending on your relation, you go to funeral to pay your respect, grieve or offer your support to the family in extremely tough times. End of, there is literally nothing else to say.

Bizzarely callous attitude because you said this about your family, with father in law.

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Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
39,322
Only if they recreate the champagne scene from "My Beautiful Laundrette".



Why do you ask that? I see that in your profile says 31yo, you could show that you are that age, starting by using other rhetorical resources to try to offend me. Using age to feel superior and more intelligent is an obsolete resource and it doesn't work with me. The only one who is being ridiculous here is you, acting that way.
I would appreciate it if you put me on your ignored list if you are affected so much by my personal opinions. I notice you too annoyed simply because I said I don't like a certain cultural convention.
But first let me explain why my opinion. What is the meaning of spending hours crying the corpse of a loved one inside a coffin? What's supposed to symbolize that? The duel? Duel is an internal process that each person does for himself. A funeral doesn't measure the love you feel for that person, and you don't have to prove anything to anyone. Also, in that coffin there is no person, there is only a human body, and you aren't honoring the person with that ritual either. It really seems to me something masochistic and sick, yes. I didn't know that it was "egocentric", God.
And your argument is totally ridiculous. If that seems fair to you, then I can say that punishment and torture continue to be carried out in some cultures.

Now please, put me in ignored, adult person.

Wow. Just wow. That you think people go to funerals because they are trying to prove something to others.. Jesus Christ.

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A friend can't deal with the fact that his girlfriend slept around in Uni (+30 sex partners). He's only slept with around 10 people.

Dunno what to tell him.

That he should dump her, because it is something he can't get over. You can debate this all you want and say it sucks for a girl to be judged, just because she had many sexual partners, but it appears to be a dealbreaker for him. So either he pretends it isn't, because he believes he should be okay with this, and it continues to eat away at him for years until he finally dumps her. Or he dumps her straight away.

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And you'll believe if when she's 25yo and when she says that you're her third? LOL.

It's just that some are actually honest.
Always believe people, until they give you reason not to. It's the only way life is bearable.
 

Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
39,322
Look at you guys protecting a woman's right to be a whore. Very touching.

Seriously though, the only thing that matters is what his friend thinks about it. Clearly he's not comfortable with it. It would be stupid carry on this relationship, but I'm sure he will. For a few months. When he decide that, guess what, he really can't get over it.
 

IliveForJuve

Burn this club
Jan 17, 2011
18,923
She might have seen enough dicks by now and is ready for something serious. Holding it against her that she fucked around alot is kinda silly imo. If it was you in place of her, you'd boast about it.
I don't boast about screwing a certain numbers of girls tho. Quality over quantity any day. Besides, women just have to spread their legs to get laid. It'd be like me boasting about brushing my teeth.

N-count doesn't affect raw attraction. For short flings or a ons high n-count doesn't matter.

I can see how for long term relationships high n-count may represent a higher long-term risk. Although context is always key to making a proper risk assessment call. If a girl goes out partying every weekend for 4 years of her Uni life, why would I believe she is capable at remaining in a monogamous relationship after she has 'had her fun and wants something serious?' I would much rather date a girl who has demonstrated an ability to remain in LTRs without cheating or changing partners every month.

It's all personal preference ofc.
 

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