Hængebøffer

Senior Member
Jun 4, 2009
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Of course. You know what makes other people special? The time spent with them. If you spent three months with a girl, you should get over her in one. Ffs.
It's like when people fall in love with someone they should not. E.g. a teacher with a parent to one of the kid's in his/her class. "You can't control who you fall in love with". Bullshit. You're not 15 anymore.
 

Fr3sh

Senior Member
Jul 12, 2011
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@Fr3sh, don't kill yourself when you move to the isolated and cold Canadian north.
:D

It's like when people fall in love with someone they should not. E.g. a teacher with a parent to one of the kid's in his/her class. "You can't control who you fall in love with". Bullshit. You're not 15 anymore.
That's fucked :lol:
Teaching in denmark sounds like fun :D
 

Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
39,326
:agree: I still consider my first gf someone special because we had a lot of fun.

A 3 month relationship would only take me a couple of weeks to get over, though :D
@king Ale thinks that's wrong though. Because everyone's different. Bullshit. Only time makes people special.

It's like when people fall in love with someone they should not. E.g. a teacher with a parent to one of the kid's in his/her class. "You can't control who you fall in love with". Bullshit. You're not 15 anymore.
Yep, exactly. I've made some bad choices too obviously and fallen for the wrong people, but I can almost remember at what specific time I decided to pursue things. People have much more control over these things than they like to admit.
 

Fr3sh

Senior Member
Jul 12, 2011
37,249
@king Ale thinks that's wrong though. Because everyone's different. Bullshit. Only time makes people special.
If it's some random girl that I'm seeing for 2-3 months and shit ends, I wouldn't care at all, heck I've had small things like that in the past few years. It just didn't work out and you move on, heck I'd bang her friends and not think twice about it. It would take me days to if not hours to forget about it.

However with my ex, we've been together for a long time, and been a part for a long time as well now. We were friends, got closer, then hooked up. Was head over heels for her after a certain point, I'd write her poems (go 'head punks laugh, sex was extra amazing if she liked them), knew her family (single dad, mom passed away). There was a lot of emotions in this relationship, and when I noticed how emotionally invested I was into her it scared me and I ended things. Was my biggest regret, now she hates my guts :lol::sad:
It's life, ya move on.
 

IliveForJuve

Burn this club
Jan 17, 2011
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If it's some random girl that I'm seeing for 2-3 months and shit ends, I wouldn't care at all, heck I've had small things like that in the past few years. It just didn't work out and you move on, heck I'd bang her friends and not think twice about it. It would take me days to if not hours to forget about it.

However with my ex, we've been together for a long time, and been a part for a long time as well now. We were friends, got closer, then hooked up. Was head over heels for her after a certain point, I'd write her poems (go 'head punks laugh, sex was extra amazing if she liked them), knew her family (single dad, mom passed away). There was a lot of emotions in this relationship, and when I noticed how emotionally invested I was into her it scared me and I ended things. Was my biggest regret, now she hates my guts :lol::sad:
It's life, ya move on.
I really don't understand how this happens to people.

It's so silly.
 

Enron

Tickle Me
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Oct 11, 2005
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Sure. I agree that posturing isn't always helpful. But sometimes you do need a friend who tells you to man up. Preferably a friend who doesn't give just that as advice all the time though.
Sometimes you can have too many people telling you to man up when all you really need to hear is "hey man, everything will be ok in the end".
 

Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
39,326
Sometimes you can have too many people telling you to man up when all you really need to hear is "hey man, everything will be ok in the end".
I'm not suggesting that's the first thing people should say. Break ups hurt.

Also, 'everything will be okay in the end' is sort of synonymous with 'man up, because this isn't going to hurt forever' imo.

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