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This is easy. Go. Because you said you would. But have a good time. She isn't your girlfriend, so you're not breaking up with her. You aren't even dating. There is nothing to worry about at this point, you owe her nothing (other than your time you said you would give). She is just a girl that you are going out with for the day.
For the date. Do something that you want to do, have a good time and at the end tell her it was nice to hang out, don't hold her hand, don't give her a hug, etc. But also, don't act bored, give her your attention and think of this as practice for future dates with girls you do like.
Then afterwards go about your business as you would normally. Don't text or call and after a few days she should get the idea. If she texts or calls and wants to know what's up, tell her you had a great time and she seems like a cool friend.
For the date. Do something that you want to do, have a good time and at the end tell her it was nice to hang out, don't hold her hand, don't give her a hug, etc. But also, don't act bored, give her your attention and think of this as practice for future dates with girls you do like.
Then afterwards go about your business as you would normally. Don't text or call and after a few days she should get the idea. If she texts or calls and wants to know what's up, tell her you had a great time and she seems like a cool friend.
So does E. He took sheikh's post at face value. That's generally a bad idea. The reason he doesn't want to go is not that he doesn't like the girl. It's that he fears it will be awkward because he's not good with girls. Apart from that he might also be scared that he might not like her that much in person. Either way he just doesn't want to go because he hates confronting that awkwardness.
Well, wake the fuck up, sometimes dating can be awkward. Just go ffs.
And if the first date went well and so did the texting, don't go in autodestruct mode just because it feels weird.
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Don't pussy out.
Well, wake the fuck up, sometimes dating can be awkward. Just go ffs.
And if the first date went well and so did the texting, don't go in autodestruct mode just because it feels weird.
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Don't pussy out.
Indeed, he said he doesnt want to bang her while not thinking she is ugly. Its bit peculiar, I get wanting to look for serious meaningful relationship first as your goal, I do too, we all should. But when you realize said prospects for that is not possible in whatever standard he has for that, then why not just have fun and then part ways?
The main thing I agree with E about is him suggesting he should be using this date and other not going anywhere dates as practice, git gud and get over your hang ups and pick up some valuable social cues and ways to naturally interact/assert yourself.
The main thing I agree with E about is him suggesting he should be using this date and other not going anywhere dates as practice, git gud and get over your hang ups and pick up some valuable social cues and ways to naturally interact/assert yourself.
I'll save this for another day.I'm beginning to understand how things work. Don't really like it, but that's how it is.
Believe me when I say that awkwardness has been an ever-present "friend" for as long as I can remember. I'm not afraid of it. I just wanted to tap into the collective wisdom of you studs to see if there's a better scenario that I haven't already anticipated. Turns out there isn't, so I'm just gonna do what I wanna do and let the pieces fall where they fall. Screw this illusion of control!
It's already done. I canceled it cos I got invited to a late night bbq with some friends instead. She hasn't texted since then, so I'm just gonna let this decay into history. If she calls again, Imma tell her that she's a fine girl, but I'm not into her.
I forgot completely about cultural differences/habits, tho it should be doable just to bang em in certain scenarios, chicks are horny everywhere (you just fish for em in different social venues then whats the norm elsewhere). Especially socially/culturally repressed ones lol. It may take some more effort then the usual go out to pub/night club/house party casual aspect, but if there is a will, and lots and lots of raging hormones, theres a way.
Exactly.
Whats more important is not making too much of a big deal about it/bother with judging things in preset superflous standards/high expectations. Just talk/fish for shit you have in common can have fun with, and then you'll notice if she interests you or not. Half of the encounters these days is before even deciding you have any interest in em, to just talk as collegues/friend of a friend/random chance encounter (rarer these days with everyone glued to cell phones), and only then after a while you can sense something irresistible/worth exploring about em.
But generally you are better off not making too big of a deal in meeting em, and get too ahead of yourself in what you want to get out of it all before barely even getting to know her.
Whats more important is not making too much of a big deal about it/bother with judging things in preset superflous standards/high expectations. Just talk/fish for shit you have in common can have fun with, and then you'll notice if she interests you or not. Half of the encounters these days is before even deciding you have any interest in em, to just talk as collegues/friend of a friend/random chance encounter (rarer these days with everyone glued to cell phones), and only then after a while you can sense something irresistible/worth exploring about em.
But generally you are better off not making too big of a deal in meeting em, and get too ahead of yourself in what you want to get out of it all before barely even getting to know her.