Probably both, I can't say I've met that many people that have stood out to me. I've also noticed that if I start getting feelings for someone I just fall into it too easily. I also, lately, change the way I talk to people when I'm genuinely interested. I think I become too nice (boring) it probably becomes obvious that I'm really scared of fucking it up and overthink everything. You can't put pussy on a pedestal, I can smooth talk a girl I just wanna bang but if I see redeeming qualities in someone and start thinking this could be the one I become a bitch basically. It's strange because I'm actually quite confident otherwise.