What Are You Doing Right Now? (330 Viewers)
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We all get burned by a girl at some point. It's probably one of the biggest shake ups we can get as men 
Sure. But if that happens and you bounce back, you generally deal much better with personal issues afterwards.
Not everyone seems to be able to though. Read something in the paper about a 21 year old killing himself over some girl. Maybe dealing with such things should be something people are educated on as well..
Not everyone seems to be able to though. Read something in the paper about a 21 year old killing himself over some girl. Maybe dealing with such things should be something people are educated on as well..
You tell yourself that this is the girl for you, just your type, everything you want.. and she's into you too, giving you all the signs. Except a few days later she's not into you anymore. Good stuff 
The worst one that I had really fucked me for a long time, but it really was a turning point in my life and I really grew a lot out of it. A much needed reality check in the end.
P.S. still think I'm gonna end up boning her some day to exorcise that demon.
The worst one that I had really fucked me for a long time, but it really was a turning point in my life and I really grew a lot out of it. A much needed reality check in the end.
P.S. still think I'm gonna end up boning her some day to exorcise that demon.
I love these stories and posts.
Was she in Serbia? I'm not trolling.
That's because for some reason nowadays more men are like women and women are like men.
Personal issues? Or you just become a different verson of yourself where you're the one that wants to lead the game?
To be fair, it's a period for me when I don't move a finger and girls jump all over me. Pretty fasticinating because when I busted my balls there was no way I could get a girl that like. Now when I don't care one bit they are waiting with their legs wide open. I'm in some weird-ish relationship right now and she's a good girl. But I'm the one that's stone cold and I went to see some other girl in a coffee place like week ago. I knew she had a thing for me, she was a promoter at a place where I worked, and we ended up making out. Oh god those tits. Anyway, she knew that I know she has a bf. Pretty strange how they handle the situation so cold like nothing happened. She also has no idea that I'm in a relationship of any thing (I think at least). One might think she's a slut. But no, and you know what, I bet majority of guys here would think she's a great girl if they met here. She's really smart (and hot) too. However I gotta mention important fact: she was a long distance relationship.
Shortly: I actually see more men emotionally invested in relationship (and out of it) than girls. So I don't know if there's something wrong with men or women. Or both.
Was she in Serbia? I'm not trolling.
That's because for some reason nowadays more men are like women and women are like men.
Personal issues? Or you just become a different verson of yourself where you're the one that wants to lead the game?
To be fair, it's a period for me when I don't move a finger and girls jump all over me. Pretty fasticinating because when I busted my balls there was no way I could get a girl that like. Now when I don't care one bit they are waiting with their legs wide open. I'm in some weird-ish relationship right now and she's a good girl. But I'm the one that's stone cold and I went to see some other girl in a coffee place like week ago. I knew she had a thing for me, she was a promoter at a place where I worked, and we ended up making out. Oh god those tits. Anyway, she knew that I know she has a bf. Pretty strange how they handle the situation so cold like nothing happened. She also has no idea that I'm in a relationship of any thing (I think at least). One might think she's a slut. But no, and you know what, I bet majority of guys here would think she's a great girl if they met here. She's really smart (and hot) too. However I gotta mention important fact: she was a long distance relationship.
Shortly: I actually see more men emotionally invested in relationship (and out of it) than girls. So I don't know if there's something wrong with men or women. Or both.
You tell yourself that this is the girl for you, just your type, everything you want.. and she's into you too, giving you all the signs. Except a few days later she's not into you anymore. Good stuff
I take inspiration from you, Dusan.
Yeah, the employment situation is in the crapper where you are, but you're swimming up to your balls in available hooch.I think Andries is speaking less about being the "lead" as much as it is compartmentalizing what a relationship with a woman means to you and how your own sense of self becomes much stronger than that. Only you allow yourself to feel like shit.
Great story about the hookup with the girl attached to the long-distance bf, and you're right. I mean, I think you can never tell what lies behind the façade of some people. A girl has needs and urges, and sometimes she's not all too proud of her own behavior. But that doesn't mean she isn't trying to walk a narrow road. Nor does it mean she isn't interested in straying.
You can't always be sure how freaky people are under the covers we normally show publicly.
Dude, you just described many years of my dating life. I had ambivalent women coming out of every orifice. That's when you need to step back and start wondering how much is you vs them.
I take inspiration from you, Dusan.
Yeah, the employment situation is in the crapper where you are, but you're swimming up to your balls in available hooch.
I think Andries is speaking less about being the "lead" as much as it is compartmentalizing what a relationship with a woman means to you and how your own sense of self becomes much stronger than that. Only you allow yourself to feel like shit.
Great story about the hookup with the girl attached to the long-distance bf, and you're right. I mean, I think you can never tell what lies behind the façade of some people. A girl has needs and urges, and sometimes she's not all too proud of her own behavior. But that doesn't mean she isn't trying to walk a narrow road. Nor does it mean she isn't interested in straying.
You can't always be sure how freaky people are under the covers we normally show publicly.
I take inspiration from you, Dusan.
Yeah, the employment situation is in the crapper where you are, but you're swimming up to your balls in available hooch.I think Andries is speaking less about being the "lead" as much as it is compartmentalizing what a relationship with a woman means to you and how your own sense of self becomes much stronger than that. Only you allow yourself to feel like shit.
Great story about the hookup with the girl attached to the long-distance bf, and you're right. I mean, I think you can never tell what lies behind the façade of some people. A girl has needs and urges, and sometimes she's not all too proud of her own behavior. But that doesn't mean she isn't trying to walk a narrow road. Nor does it mean she isn't interested in straying.
You can't always be sure how freaky people are under the covers we normally show publicly.
Condoms cost 2.5e for a pack (of 3). That is literally 1/4 of a daily salary. I wish I could see Americans buy condoms for like 50 dollars (there are some cheaper ones but I feel like buying a Chinese products. Not that I would mind but... it's a condom. I wouldn't mess with that). Sooner or later I'll be out of cash (the non-existant wallet that I have). Settle down? I can't nor I plan to settle down while being financially unstable. So even if girls I meet are good the best thing I can do for myself is to be in emotional detachment and have some fun.
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90% of Serbian chicks.
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When does the search stop, then? If you get married with a girl, than that also means there's a better one out there. Does that ring for a divorce or a second thought aboht the marriage itself?
The whole marriage thing seems strongly forced by the society anyway. It's like it's a final solution to all problems while in fact it probably creates even more problems.
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90% of Serbian chicks.
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When does the search stop, then? If you get married with a girl, than that also means there's a better one out there. Does that ring for a divorce or a second thought aboht the marriage itself?
The whole marriage thing seems strongly forced by the society anyway. It's like it's a final solution to all problems while in fact it probably creates even more problems.
Doooz the whole when you aren't looking for it bitches are everywhere thing is always the case. I had a mid mid life crisis and freaked out that all my mates are in relationships yet I can't find a little honey to be with. It consumed me for a bit but I'm letting it all go now, cbf with it, every girl I'd be like oh shit she could be the one. Doesn't work.
Now I'm just thinking I'm gonna have some fun, not worry about things and see what happens. At least try to. Which sounds like what you are doing, it's probably the best choice.
I do feel like I don't meet enough new girls in general but what can ya do. I'm not going to actively search anymore. I am someone that does want to get married eventually however.
However if there are some Serbian honeys that need an Australian visa, send em my way. Haven't banged a serb yet.
Now I'm just thinking I'm gonna have some fun, not worry about things and see what happens. At least try to. Which sounds like what you are doing, it's probably the best choice.
I do feel like I don't meet enough new girls in general but what can ya do. I'm not going to actively search anymore. I am someone that does want to get married eventually however.
However if there are some Serbian honeys that need an Australian visa, send em my way. Haven't banged a serb yet.
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