What I didn't expect was the follow up to Cologne's NYE to be Bangalore's. So yeah, it's probably the scale. And here just a couple months ago I was telling a friend, "A single woman can walk downtown Bangalore without being hassled at 10pm... that's not normally the case in the U.S." :doh:
But at least I saved my ass in telling her that for everything true in India, the exact opposite is also true. NYE would be it.
I'm surprised Goa would be more of a place for that -- but perhaps that has to do with more of the "party" vibe the state takes on.
And Bangalore overall seems less likely than other parts of India to harbor the backwards types who do that crap as a sort of last-gasp resentment for losing their gender-dominant place in society.
Guess everybody has been influenced by Tone Lōc telling us to do the "Wild Thing".... it is really sad.
Once you realise that there is a vast variety of classes that exist in Bangalore or any other big city here, almost anything is possible. NYE is the kind of event where there's a LOT of people on the streets, and they come out in numbers cos they know that they can get away with such shit. The police, as useless as they are, won't take much action on it anyway, and that makes the whole thing worse.
Goa is definitely that kind of a place cos everyone knows that is the party destination. I've seen a friend get molested (and subsequently beat the shit out of the molester) in Goa 5 years ago. I've never been back there since cos I'm disgusted by it.
Plus, check out this video that surfaced a few days ago of another girl in Bangalore (in an area where Asif used to stay, I think) getting molested by 2 guys on a bike. This has caused a bigger outrage among women here.
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