Lilith

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May 19, 2006
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is Mormonism not a thing down there?

cults seem like a good way to bitches
Naw this lot is way too hedonistic for that.

Since we're talking about relationships... how do us guys stays faithful? It truly is the hardest test I've ever taken
I honestly do not believe that many people are that faithful. Not saying it is right, just saying it seems to be a fact of life these days.

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Wondering if I should continue with school or just quit and do EMT then firefighter training
Go study astronomy!
 

X Æ A-12

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Naw this lot is way too hedonistic for that.



I honestly do not believe that many people are that faithful. Not saying it is right, just saying it seems to be a fact of life these days.
plenty of hedonistic cults out there

there was one in the town i grew up in. Annoying Hippies but they had wild parties and a swanky house
 

IliveForJuve

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Jan 17, 2011
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Since we're talking about relationships... how do us guys stays faithful? It truly is the hardest test I've ever taken
I've been unfaithful in past relationships but I never loved any of my past partners (I think).

I don't think I could cheat on my current girlfriend, not just because I love her a lot (which I do) but because she's just so innocent, good and caring that it would break my heart to do something like that to such an amazing person.
 

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Wondering if I should continue with school or just quit and do EMT then firefighter training
If you're just gonna slide down poles, go straight to the clubs for stacks of cheddar, yo.

Since we're talking about relationships... how do us guys stays faithful? It truly is the hardest test I've ever taken
It's generally been not so hard for me. I think it's because if you've been around the block with a lot of different psychos, you appreciate the ones who aren't. Sure, you get the biological pangs and all, but you also know dead rabbits are just around the corner with experience. It's sorta like passing the marshmallow test.

But even when you are faithful, that doesn't mean temptation doesn't happen...

plenty of hedonistic cults out there

there was one in the town i grew up in. Annoying Hippies but they had wild parties and a swanky house
Probably not Lafayette. :p
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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I've been unfaithful in past relationships but I never loved any of my past partners (I think).

I don't think I could cheat on my current girlfriend, not just because I love her a lot (which I do) but because she's just so innocent, good and caring that it would break my heart to do something like that to such an amazing person.
Exact situation here :D If I do it, I know I'm just an asshole. And damn, being able to relate to Tuz' number one asshole confirms it :p
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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It's generally been not so hard for me. I think it's because if you've been around the block with a lot of different psychos, you appreciate the ones who aren't. Sure, you get the biological pangs and all, but you also know dead rabbits are just around the corner with experience. It's sorta like passing the marshmallow test.

But even when you are faithful, that doesn't mean temptation doesn't happen...
It's good to know even a virtuous guy like yourself understands :D
 

Lilith

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May 19, 2006
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Define faithful? Some say it is the minute you delete a text that you don't want your partner to see. If that is the case the majority of us are probably guilty as hell. But if we are talking about hardcore cheating, some days I think humans are not meant to be monogamous and maybe I should not expect it from a partner, other days I feel like I would stab someone with a fork if I ever found out they were cheating. Generally however, if I really like someone and I am really happy most of the time, I would never look to anyone else because there is no void that I need filling.
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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Define faithful? Some say it is the minute you delete a text that you don't want your partner to see. If that is the case the majority of us are probably guilty as hell. But if we are talking about hardcore cheating, some days I think humans are not meant to be monogamous and maybe I should not expect it from a partner, other days I feel like I would stab someone with a fork if I ever found out they were cheating. Generally however, if I really like someone and I am really happy most of the time, I would never look to anyone else because there is no void that I need filling.
I think once girls are content in their relationship, they won't look outside. For most, or a lot of guys, no matter how great it is, we still want more. I mean, don't blame us, blame evolution ;)
 

Lilith

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May 19, 2006
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I think once girls are content in their relationship, they won't look outside. For most, or a lot of guys, no matter how great it is, we still want more. I mean, don't blame us, blame evolution ;)
I am inclined to agree with you. That is not to say that we do not experience temptations ourselves, we just have better self control I think. In fact temptation happened just as recently as Saturday. Of course I did not act on it but it was there. But I have noticed something with your gender. You are ferociously territorial when it comes to your girlfriends, despite the fact that you are pretty okay with your own misgivings. I think women are better at brushing off crap than men are.
 

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