I've been unfaithful in past relationships but I never loved any of my past partners (I think).
I don't think I could cheat on my current girlfriend, not just because I love her a lot (which I do) but because she's just so innocent, good and caring that it would break my heart to do something like that to such an amazing person.
It's generally been not so hard for me. I think it's because if you've been around the block with a lot of different psychos, you appreciate the ones who aren't. Sure, you get the biological pangs and all, but you also know dead rabbits are just around the corner with experience. It's sorta like passing the marshmallow test.
But even when you are faithful, that doesn't mean temptation doesn't happen...
I've been unfaithful in past relationships but I never loved any of my past partners (I think).
I don't think I could cheat on my current girlfriend, not just because I love her a lot (which I do) but because she's just so innocent, good and caring that it would break my heart to do something like that to such an amazing person.
It's generally been not so hard for me. I think it's because if you've been around the block with a lot of different psychos, you appreciate the ones who aren't. Sure, you get the biological pangs and all, but you also know dead rabbits are just around the corner with experience. It's sorta like passing the marshmallow test.
But even when you are faithful, that doesn't mean temptation doesn't happen...
Define faithful? Some say it is the minute you delete a text that you don't want your partner to see. If that is the case the majority of us are probably guilty as hell. But if we are talking about hardcore cheating, some days I think humans are not meant to be monogamous and maybe I should not expect it from a partner, other days I feel like I would stab someone with a fork if I ever found out they were cheating. Generally however, if I really like someone and I am really happy most of the time, I would never look to anyone else because there is no void that I need filling.
Define faithful? Some say it is the minute you delete a text that you don't want your partner to see. If that is the case the majority of us are probably guilty as hell. But if we are talking about hardcore cheating, some days I think humans are not meant to be monogamous and maybe I should not expect it from a partner, other days I feel like I would stab someone with a fork if I ever found out they were cheating. Generally however, if I really like someone and I am really happy most of the time, I would never look to anyone else because there is no void that I need filling.
I think once girls are content in their relationship, they won't look outside. For most, or a lot of guys, no matter how great it is, we still want more. I mean, don't blame us, blame evolution
I think once girls are content in their relationship, they won't look outside. For most, or a lot of guys, no matter how great it is, we still want more. I mean, don't blame us, blame evolution
I am inclined to agree with you. That is not to say that we do not experience temptations ourselves, we just have better self control I think. In fact temptation happened just as recently as Saturday. Of course I did not act on it but it was there. But I have noticed something with your gender. You are ferociously territorial when it comes to your girlfriends, despite the fact that you are pretty okay with your own misgivings. I think women are better at brushing off crap than men are.