What Are You Doing Right Now? (225 Viewers)
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Sippin' me a mofo grappa in the town square after dinner. This works for me.
Yeah, that's Kate ordering a burger.
Karma is a bitch. Or at least that's what I keep telling myself. It's situations like that I remind myself that people invite into their lives the very things they do themselves - if not worse.
Congrats! Birthday drum kit at age 3 to torture your sibling and the significant other.
It means a whole different thing in the Northwest Territories. But fuck dem baby fur seals, ya know?
Oh no way I am going there! :sick:
Oh puhleeze I do that all the time..
I do that all the time..
Yeah, that's Kate ordering a burger. Karma is a bitch. Or at least that's what I keep telling myself. It's situations like that I remind myself that people invite into their lives the very things they do themselves - if not worse.
Congrats! Birthday drum kit at age 3 to torture your sibling and the significant other.
Someone still has to explain me the purpose of clubbing, but I hope you have fun
Oh no way I am going there! :sick:
Right, so I need some advice. And yeah, I usually enjoy the twisted humor of some of you on this site, but this time I'd much appreciate some serious responses.
Something I found out last night, is that my abusive ex who I left a while back started dating again. A friend of mine suggested that I contact this person to warn her about him so she doesn't suffer the same thing I did. While I definitely don't want anyone to be subjected to some of the stuff he did to me, I worry a little about what could happen if I try to get involved.
Just wondering what I should do in this situation... I've tried hard to block him & our relationship out of my mind, but thinking about this has brought back a lot of resentment. I honestly don't think he deserves affection from any girl. There's a small chance he could have improved for the better after I left him but really, people like that rarely change, especially at his age. And I don't want to talk to any more of my friends here about it because I still have a couple links to his social circle & I don't want the wrong people to hear about it.
Something I found out last night, is that my abusive ex who I left a while back started dating again. A friend of mine suggested that I contact this person to warn her about him so she doesn't suffer the same thing I did. While I definitely don't want anyone to be subjected to some of the stuff he did to me, I worry a little about what could happen if I try to get involved.
Just wondering what I should do in this situation... I've tried hard to block him & our relationship out of my mind, but thinking about this has brought back a lot of resentment. I honestly don't think he deserves affection from any girl. There's a small chance he could have improved for the better after I left him but really, people like that rarely change, especially at his age. And I don't want to talk to any more of my friends here about it because I still have a couple links to his social circle & I don't want the wrong people to hear about it.
it's not your problem imo. he's gonna keep dating people and you can't be there all the time. maybe he's changed, maybe she's twisted and likes abusive people, or if she's smart she'll figure out her mistake and drop him. you don't know how she'll react to her boyfriend's ex trying to warn her. maybe she'll think you're jealous and your name will just get dragged through the mud for no reason.
so just leave it be and try to forget about him.
so just leave it be and try to forget about him.
Yeah, that's another thing I was thinking. I'm hoping she can be a stronger person than I was & leave before it gets bad. I ignored warning signs early on & it turned into a nearly four year long relationship, the last two of which were miserable & made me feel incredibly low. Thing is it wasn't really physical abuse, but sexual & emotional, so it was easier to deny that there was anything wrong, also easier to hide from other people.
The "looking like I'm jealous" thing, I'm not that concerned about, because it's not like I'm single or in a position where it would seem like jealousy is a motivation. But I guess he could tell her anything, he did manage to turn a few of our mutual friends against me by telling them I was making everything up & that I'm bipolar or some shit.
But yeah, don't think I'll do anything, I'm not big on confrontation anyway. Thanks guys.
The "looking like I'm jealous" thing, I'm not that concerned about, because it's not like I'm single or in a position where it would seem like jealousy is a motivation. But I guess he could tell her anything, he did manage to turn a few of our mutual friends against me by telling them I was making everything up & that I'm bipolar or some shit.
But yeah, don't think I'll do anything, I'm not big on confrontation anyway. Thanks guys.
Yeah, I don't know her. And now that I really think about it, unless I had a sort of proof there would be no reason for her to believe some stranger's Facebook message or whatever.
Anyway I feel a lot better about the issue now, when I first wrote on here my head was just kind of spinning thinking about it.
You would send me to my death if you could, wouldn't you
Anyway I feel a lot better about the issue now, when I first wrote on here my head was just kind of spinning thinking about it.
You would send me to my death if you could, wouldn't you
Yeah, I don't know her. And now that I really think about it, unless I had a sort of proof there would be no reason for her to believe some stranger's Facebook message or whatever.
Anyway I feel a lot better about the issue now, when I first wrote on here my head was just kind of spinning thinking about it.
You would send me to my death if you could, wouldn't you
Anyway I feel a lot better about the issue now, when I first wrote on here my head was just kind of spinning thinking about it.
You would send me to my death if you could, wouldn't you