I know I mean actually that I judge it on base of the place I was and the stories from other people. I can imagine Paris being like that.
Yes I understand, I do date only people I like

but it is hard to get a nice talk and so on with guys younger. If I would date a 20 year he is probably still exciting about partying all the time, going to first year of study. While I feel I want more in life

you know what I mean.