You know, I've always had (& still have) the same problems with Italian.
When it comes to reading or listening it's fine (or at least good enough for me), but writing or speaking is close to impossible. Especially since it's been a few months since I last tried it, sadly there's not much use for Italian in my day to day life.
As for Dutch: ik ben er zeker van dat dit wel in orde komt, aangezien je het waarschijnlijk dagelijks hoort in Nederland