What Are You Doing Right Now? (324 Viewers)

[Osman]

Haha, plastic upper class people are everywhere. You should see some of the fancy neighbourhoods here in Stockholm. You will see the most orange faced vapid bimbos and himbos you ever seen. They all model themselves after Real Housewives of NY/ATL/LA. Been invited to their parties due to coworkers, and it was hard keeping a straight face for most of the time.

 

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[X Æ A-12]

I say sick crap all the time, so his Amazon reviews I see as funny... until the guy backs them up.

Yesterday Youtube recommended his confession footage. I ended up watching some of it.

He might be one of the most insufferable people to have ever existed. The awful things he is describing are at times overtaken by the pure cringe of his personality. Brags on and on about how amazing he is at preying on defenseless people with a firearm.

Expects the police to be impressed with his cool head and marksmanship

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

Deadbeat dads are the lowest of low. I hope that doesn't apply to anyone here

 

[X Æ A-12]

Deadbeat dads are the lowest of low. I hope that doesn't apply to anyone here

I know a guy who had a kid at 18. Decade later I see him occassionally through a mutual friend. He still does nothing at all for his daughter and continues to live his life like he is still 18 and has no responsibilities.

Is oddly judgemental of other people and will even bring up the "i'm a father" cared at times. Blames society for all of his problems.

Drunk drove his car onto a sidewalk last year and blamed the "racist" police lol

Yea he's a complete piece of shit.

 

[swag]

Haha, plastic upper class people are everywhere. You should see some of the fancy neighbourhoods here in Stockholm. You will see the most orange faced vapid bimbos and himbos you ever seen. They all model themselves after Real Housewives of NY/ATL/LA. Been invited to their parties due to coworkers, and it was hard keeping a straight face for most of the time.

Oh, if they were upper class. They are more fashionable "betos", which is the word they use here. A beto is typically that guy (or girl) in loafers with a sweater around his neck who has never had to sweat in his life. Might not be rich, but he's comfortably numb at least. Definitely aspiring to a higher class, and yet still might not be anything close to one of the smarter people in the room despite dad buying that private education.

Stockholm? Really? Sweden always struck me as so jantelagen about things. Those people sound like the Texas mutant variants.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

I know a guy who had a kid at 18. Decade later I see him occassionally through a mutual friend. He still does nothing at all for his daughter and continues to live his life like he is still 18 and has no responsibilities.

Is oddly judgemental of other people and will even bring up the "i'm a father" cared at times. Blames society for all of his problems.

Drunk drove his car onto a sidewalk last year and blamed the "racist" police lol

Yea he's a complete piece of shit.

Sounds like we're talking about the same person. Lazy, self pitying. Guess they're all one and the same

 

[Osman]

Cool that you know about the jantelagen @swag Most people adhere to that code. But there's some cosmopolitan freaks and American wannabes who are vapid international vacationers and general eurotrash airheads in these circles I mentioned.

 

[swag]

I know a guy who had a kid at 18. Decade later I see him occassionally through a mutual friend. He still does nothing at all for his daughter and continues to live his life like he is still 18 and has no responsibilities.

Is oddly judgemental of other people and will even bring up the "i'm a father" cared at times. Blames society for all of his problems.

Yea he's a complete piece of shit.

One of the greatest social stories I've ever heard is the complete opposite of the deadbeat dad story.

I once was out with one of the first friends I made here a 3+ years ago. We were walking to the grocery store with his young son to pick up provisions, and he ran into a friend from his old neighborhood -- a very traditional, self-sufficient, sometimes wealthy, but very communal neighborhood in Lisbon.

Turns out the guy (now around 30 years old) and his sister lost their father before he was one year old, and they lost their mother before he was five. But the elders of the neighborhood stepped in and insisted that the neighborhood would raise them and they would not go to an orphanage. So the different families each took turns hosting the children, raising them, and they grew up without the foster care system. Amazing "it takes a village" stuff. And the guy turned out alright and literally was part of everyone's family to this day.

 

[X Æ A-12]

Sounds like we're talking about the same person. Lazy, self pitying. Guess they're all one and the same

I forgot to mention his court appearance for the DUI. He showed up hours late with alcohol on his breath.

Spent the weekend in jail for it. Learned nothing at all.

This dude is 31.

 

[GordoDeCentral]

Deadbeat dads are the lowest of low. I hope that doesn't apply to anyone here

Not really, don't we teach girls to be proper sluts and that they are equal to men? Why do they need the dad then? My body my choice right? Guy has 0 say. The preponderance of deadbeat dads are a symptom of a sick society. I don't feel bad for a woman who made no effort in selecting who gets to dump his load inside her.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

Not really, don't we teach girls to be proper sluts and that they are equal to men? Why do they need the dad then? My body my choice right? Guy has 0 say. The preponderance of deadbeat dads are a symptom of a sick society. I don't feel bad for a woman who made no effort in selecting who gets to dump his load inside her.

It's not the woman I feel bad for, it's the kid

 

[GordoDeCentral]

It's not the woman I feel bad for, it's the kid

With a mom like that, kid is fucked anyway

 

[X Æ A-12]

Not really, don't we teach girls to be proper sluts and that they are equal to men? Why do they need the dad then? My body my choice right? Guy has 0 say. The preponderance of deadbeat dads are a symptom of a sick society. I don't feel bad for a woman who made no effort in selecting who gets to dump his load inside her.

While I get your point I'm not sure I see it that black and white. Lot of people make horrible mistakes when young more due to immaturity then an irredeemable lack of character.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

With a mom like that, kid is fucked anyway

She's doing her part reasonably well tbh. Of course it was her mistake having a child with a bum, but I simply cannot respect a man like that. Complete waste of space.

 

[X Æ A-12]

Even having horrible judgement beyond youth doesn't make you a bad person deserving of zero sympathy.

What makes you a bad person is not giving a fuck about how your actions impact other people. Lacking empathy for people you should be helping.

Like a deadbeat dad.

 

[Dostoevsky]

While I get your point I'm not sure I see it that black and white. Lot of people make horrible mistakes when young more due to immaturity then an irredeemable lack of character.

People make those regardless of their age.

As for marriage I think that's always a gamble. One can lower the risk by using their head, surely, but it can always go to shit imo.

 

[X Æ A-12]

People make those regardless of their age.
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Some people yes age is irrelevant, like the example i mentioned, but plenty of people are capable of maturing/ learning from their mistakes.

 

[GordoDeCentral]

While I get your point I'm not sure I see it that black and white. Lot of people make horrible mistakes when young more due to immaturity then an irredeemable lack of character.

And a lot of that has to do with terrible parenting and normalizing destructive behavior, back to what i said, merely a symptom.

She's doing her part reasonably well tbh. Of course it was her mistake having a child with a bum, but I simply cannot respect a man like that. Complete waste of space.

I'm not saying we should respect him, i am trying to see the big picture.

 

[Quetzalcoatl]

And a lot of that has to do with terrible parenting and normalizing destructive behavior, back to what i said, merely a symptom.



I'm not saying we should respect him, i am trying to see the big picture.

Agreed, it's a symptom of a bigger issue. However on an individual level there is no excuse in this case and few things make me angrier to see.

 

[GordoDeCentral]

Some people yes age is irrelevant, like the example i mentioned, but plenty of people are capable of maturing/ learning from their mistakes.

Yo just found out today that creeds song 'one' was anti-affirmative action, always liked the song but never paid much attention to the words, trippy.