Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,489
@GordoDeCentral, @Osman

Normally I would say what is wrong with you idiots, quit the infantile macho shaming you douches.

But this is a new me. All serene. I will just say nothing.
Its not about macho, far from it, I just dont get reacting like that, giving away so much power to someone else to the point you succumb to that. Even if I get getting hurt to a point. I seen male friends being destroyed by break ups, so litterally jaded about it and usually tell anyone I care about, like Darman here, just to get their fucking act together and calm their tits, this type of pathetic hold on you its not worth it whatsoever. Mainly because Its usually blown out of proportions big time in their minds, more ego thing then being truly THAT into that other, and you only need to give it time and realize how quickly you will find someone else to make you feel silly about previous overly strong reaction.



I'm talking about adults btw, as kids/teens, the insanely strong emotions was normal and I went through most of that, but as adults nah need to curb that and learn from experience big time.
 

Dostoevsky

Tzu
Administrator
May 27, 2007
88,988
I think it's even less.

It's all about people not wanting to move on. It's usually men who project future and instantly imagine how a hot chick (ex gf/future gf) is walking with your future kids. Then everything becomes a fantasy and idealizing becomes a reality, you'll create a full creature out of thin air. Those who 'suffer' more are those who don't want to move on and who are stuck with 'she's the perfect one and the only one in world'. Funny thing is it only takes some time to figure out that's all BS and world is full of chicks. One big emotional mess.

It's quite weird how people want to stick in their comfort zone, despite of the zone reeking nothing but pain.
 

Fr3sh

Senior Member
Jul 12, 2011
37,249
Its not about macho, far from it, I just dont get reacting like that, giving away so much power to someone else to the point you succumb to that. Even if I get getting hurt to a point. I seen male friends being destroyed by break ups, so litterally jaded about it and usually tell anyone I care about, like Darman here, just to get their fucking act together and calm their tits, this type of pathetic hold on you its not worth it whatsoever. Mainly because Its usually blown out of proportions big time in their minds, more ego thing then being truly THAT into that other, and you only need to give it time and realize how quickly you will find someone else to make you feel silly about previous overly strong reaction.



I'm talking about adults btw, as kids/teens, the insanely strong emotions was normal and I went through most of that, but as adults nah need to curb that and learn from experience big time.
:cry:

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I joke :lol:

But you're right still
 

Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,489
Don't tell me that's her name, will find some Somali (can't be hard to find random relative) in your city to slap the warya outta you seriously.

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Fr3sh

Senior Member
Jul 12, 2011
37,249
Money first? That's the lamest excuse :p

You can date my maid though. She's cheap to maintain.
Nah seriously though I got ambitions and get it i need money. Soon I'll go teach in either Nunavut or Yukon up north in Canada. Its almost winter all year round and it's isolated. However the pay is beautiful 73-78k salary +24k of northern allowance its a HUGE bonus, gonna do that for 3-5 years, stack up and invest properly. During thst time since I'll be isolated i can study on how to male that money grow.
I dont wsnt to work forever
 

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