swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
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Exactly. I think I will just not mention anything and be very vague, unless she asks me directly for improvement tips. Even then I might disguise it as something along the lines of "you seemed under-prepared, so perhaps next time spend a bit more time practising possible answers". I hate being the bad guy at these things. :(
Short and simple is best. The candidate may tune out anyway. I honestly would only offer suggestions -- and being clear that I was just offering independent interviewing tips that weren't critical factors in the decision -- if you had a rapport with the person that made that comfortable. If it's about getting the job done of passing the news, I would keep my mouth shut on that -- but that's just me.

You can read me like a book
With well-thumbed pages.
 

Kate

Moderator
Feb 7, 2011
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Short and simple is best. The candidate may tune out anyway. I honestly would only offer suggestions -- and being clear that I was just offering independent interviewing tips that weren't critical factors in the decision -- if you had a rapport with the person that made that comfortable. If it's about getting the job done of passing the news, I would keep my mouth shut on that -- but that's just me.
Sounds like a plan! Thanks, Greg.

Sheik Yerbouti said:
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Red

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Moderator
Nov 26, 2006
47,024
Gonna go check out some putters at lunch today

need to have one in my set by tomorrow
Get yourself an Odyssey White Hot.

Had mine for about ten years and love the thing.

Or get one of these monstrosities if you have $600 burning a hole in your pocket:



I just got one of these lads for free :D





Fucking heavy old lump, old school style.
Heavy putters are the way forward.
 

swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
84,779
yes yes ignore me swag :andy2:
Hi Janna! How are you? Sounds like your internship is going well.

I apologize... I missed seeing your earlier post:

Hello Teddy

How are you?
do you know what I am making in the oven right now?
(I am not used to being called 'Teddy' -- FB forced me in that direction. :( )

I am OK. I feel pretty good about turning down that job offer this week. Weird... it was kind of like resigning on legitimate grounds before I even started on the job. What sucks is the process in my field takes a long time -- this was the result of a 7-week ordeal to get this far to an offer. I have a couple of other things in the works, and lately they seem more appealing. Getting antsy to get back to working again, but it should be the right opportunity.

OK... what are you making in the oven right now?

Is it Italian?

Is it covered in pizza sauce?

Is it cheesy?

Must be Silvio Berlusconi. His home is in the oven, you know.
 

swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
84,779
I would expect an honest feedback if I failed an interview. :agree:
But you also have to ask for it. If someone is genuinely looking for how they could improve, I'd offer suggestions -- but keeping clear that there are some things that aren't debatable about their qualifications for the job. Some candidates can use this as a technique to get information and use it against the prospective employer with multiple "but..."s. You don't want to go there.

And then again, some candidates honestly don't want to hear the feedback too -- you can't assume.

And you're welcome, Kate.
 

IrishZebra

Western Imperialist
Jun 18, 2006
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But you also have to ask for it. If someone is genuinely looking for how they could improve, I'd offer suggestions -- but keeping clear that there are some things that aren't debatable about their qualifications for the job. Some candidates can use this as a technique to get information and use it against the prospective employer with multiple "but..."s. You don't want to go there.

And then again, some candidates honestly don't want to hear the feedback too -- you can't assume.

And you're welcome, Kate.
Of course subjective analysis of your ability to answer subjective questions is something I can understand not wanting to hear.

Hearing 'we though you lack XYZ' is quite upsetting when you, in fact, lack none of them.
 
Apr 15, 2006
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I am OK. I feel pretty good about turning down that job offer this week. Weird... it was kind of like resigning on legitimate grounds before I even started on the job. What sucks is the process in my field takes a long time -- this was the result of a 7-week ordeal to get this far to an offer. I have a couple of other things in the works, and lately they seem more appealing. Getting antsy to get back to working again, but it should be the right opportunity.
Is this the Bangalore job you were referring to?
 

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