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gray

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I think everything that happens here seems to spill over too much.

Issues or arguments usually start off between two people, and such events act as catalysts for people to vent the bitterness and anger they have against members. It happened in Lili's situation, and a similar thing is happening here.

Z simply said that he's gonna leave, giving the reasons for his departure. Within half a dozen posts, it's turned into "analyse Zlatan's reasons for leaving and make judgments about his motives".
 
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    ++ [ originally posted by Graham ] ++
    Z simply said that he's gonna leave, giving the reasons for his departure. Within half a dozen posts, it's turned into "analyse Zlatan's reasons for leaving and make judgments about his motives".
    Well my comments weren't really pertaining to his leaving, it was about his public profile lately.

    But whenever someone who's been a member for a while leaves under less than blissful circumstances, people always gather to pursue a game of speculation about why, you can't really escape that.
     

    gray

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    I wasn't addressing your posts specifically, it's just the feel that i'm getting in this thread and others.

    You gotta admit though, this is more than just speculation
     
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    How do you mean? He said he's leaving because he's not having fun anymore. Meanwhile people are saying (I did myself) that he didn't get what he want. How is that not speculation?
     

    Len

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    BTW, it might be his plan......
    I noticed that he removed his avatar and changed all his profile a couple of days earlier before he left! He changed his location to Gone for good early.........
    He might have something on his mind?
     
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    I said it's is more than just speculation
    Alright, people insist that they are right in their speculation, is that what you meant?
     

    gray

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    ++ [ originally posted by Martin ] ++
    Alright, people insist that they are right in their speculation, is that what you meant?
    More or less, yeah.

    The word I would've used was assuming and accusing more than speculating though.

    Oh well, it's none of my business I guess. People have the right (to a certain extent) to question and present theories, but if I said that I was leaving the forum, I'd appreciate a bit more dignity than that given to Zlatan.

    Say he brought it upon himself with his posts in the past couple of weeks, but if he says he's leaving, I say give him a break
     

    Muha

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    how can it be boring here ... there r always fresh news and stuff .... yes i know that most of us have thier own member/members that they prefer to talk rather than anyone else , but still this doesnt mean that leaving is the right choice
     

    gray

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    i don't think it was just the boredom for Z, probably just the mood of the forum, which I've also noticed has changed somewhat
     

    Vicky

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    i think THIS is one of the reasons he left guys ...
    i mean , kid just wanted to say bye to everyone b/c he has some respect for us and thinks we should know that he's leaving and why. he didn't even start a new thread about it ......
    and you go on for 2 pages just "discussing" him and his reasons for leaving.
    if the same thing was done to me i woudln't even consider coming back after that.
     

    gray

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    ++ [ originally posted by Vicky ] ++
    i think THIS is one of the reasons he left guys ...
    i mean , kid just wanted to say bye to everyone b/c he has some respect for us and thinks we should know that he's leaving and why. he didn't even start a new thread about it ......
    and you go on for 2 pages just "discussing" him and his reasons for leaving.
    if the same thing was done to me i woudln't even consider coming back after that.
    Exactly my point
     

    IncuboRossonero

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    ++ [ originally posted by Vilhelmas ] ++
    jesus fukin christ, many members have left before, lots of them contributed much more than z did but none of them made such drama. **** z, if you wanna leave - just go. and dont talk crap its not attention seeking. you posted this just to make people come and beg you to come back. PATHETIC!
    Let me know if you ever run for President..I'd like to make a hefty contribution. You take the words right out of mouth.
     

    IncuboRossonero

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    ++ [ originally posted by Martin ] ++


    1. I should have said his input there.
    2. I don't think so. I think his attempt in the above mentioned thread was a clear cut case to attract attention, not least illustrated by his admission of doing it on purpose in order to see "how much he could get away with, like Nick did". While Nick considers his life mission to turn heads though his own admission, that's what I imagine Z was trying to do as well.
    As Elvis would say: CAN'T BEAT THE KING....

    (Cue in Hunk of Burning Love Song....)
     
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    ++ [ originally posted by Vicky ] ++
    i think THIS is one of the reasons he left guys ...
    i mean , kid just wanted to say bye to everyone b/c he has some respect for us and thinks we should know that he's leaving and why. he didn't even start a new thread about it ......
    and you go on for 2 pages just "discussing" him and his reasons for leaving.
    if the same thing was done to me i woudln't even consider coming back after that.
    nah, i think it is more like fli said
     
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