++ [ originally posted by Martin ] ++
Okay, they CAN blame you but it's not a rational decision. There's no way they can say "I wouldn't have missed", so in effect it's not something you should worry about. For your own sake, you WILL beat yourself up over missing it but that should come from you and not from other people, they have no valid claim here.
It's not a rational decision, but people always do that, always blame a footballer for missing a penalty, they say: how could he miss that? It was impossible to miss, and such things.
If I missed, I wouldnt bother myself at all, if I did everything to shoot it.
Yes, Raul missed, but someone "had to". If it wasn't him, someone else might as well have . And noone in their right mind will go around blaming Raul specifically for that mistake.
Nope, it wasnt like "someone had to"
Cause if it wasnt him, but someone else, that someone else could 1) missed or 2)shot and you dont know what would happen, if someone else was taking it.
Anyway it's a little too "what would happen if..." thing.
Making up theories to events, doesnt have any sense
