My Father and I Had an Argument... What Do You Say? (7 Viewers)

Apr 12, 2004
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#1
Oaky...in all seriousness I ask this:


In a relationship, who comes first: the spouse, children, parents, siblings, and take into account divorce (if allowed by religion) and blood relation.

What I want you to say is, whom would you put first, spouse, siblings, parents, children....


In what order and why?
 

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Martin

Senior Member
Dec 31, 2000
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#2
I guess people are different but I get the impression that for some the closest person to them becomes the kid, not the spouse, probably because of how the relationship is different, being responsible for someone rather than just being with someone.
 

Martin

Senior Member
Dec 31, 2000
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#4
ßöмßäяdîëя;1512700 said:
But what would your choice be in order of responsibility?

...and/or a life or death situation...
Well responsibility in the sense that here is a little person who is dependent upon you whereas your spouse isn't.

You mean like a birth with complications or something? Well I very well may be deluding myself but I always thought I would never have any doubts. To trivialize the problem enormously, you can always have another kid right?
 

JCK

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JCK
May 11, 2004
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#5
I don't think I can list them in order or create a list for the matter. They are all important to me and no one is more than the other.
 

Sarah

s-doLLa
Sep 26, 2007
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#9
You should put your children first followed by your parents then siblings and lastly your spouse. I just can't see it any other way.
 

HelterSkelter

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Apr 15, 2005
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#10
I dont have a kid at the moment,or a spouse for that matter.So i cant really comment on something that i dont have any emotional experience of.But as far as parents and siblings are concerned,for me my mother comes first,then my brother and then my father.But thats just me.
 

Elvin

Senior Member
Nov 25, 2005
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#15
I don't think I can list them in order or create a list for the matter. They are all important to me and no one is more than the other.
Word.

But it's obviously more fun hangin out with someone your age.

Forza Parents tho, we all owe them big time... especially for looks :D
 

Snoop

Sabet is a nasty virgin
Oct 2, 2001
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#16
ßöмßäяdîëя;1512698 said:
Oaky...in all seriousness I ask this:


In a relationship, who comes first: the spouse, children, parents, siblings, and take into account divorce (if allowed by religion) and blood relation.

What I want you to say is, whom would you put first, spouse, siblings, parents, children....


In what order and why?
I say fuck your father, I am with you :toast:
 

HelterSkelter

Senior Member
Apr 15, 2005
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#20
You should put your children first followed by your parents then siblings and lastly your spouse. I just can't see it any other way.
I think there's a tendency,and im not talking about everyone,to put the spouse before the parents.What you're talking about is probably the ideal situation,but a lot of people that ive come across actually value their spouse more than their parents.
 

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