is it an excuse?? (11 Viewers)

[fender06]

i met this girl a month ago, i got her msn and phone number later on
we chat happily through msn and i think i may have a chance to get her

so yesterday, i took a deep breath and sent SMS to her, asking her if she would like to watch a concert with me coz i know she likes that singer too.

She didn't reject me immediately, she said she need to have the approval of her mother..

today, she wrote some words on a paper saying sorry to me that her mother doesn't let her watch the concert

i dont know if i sould believe her or not...
or do u think i am too quick to date her?

 

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[Azzurri7]

Since when you know her?

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

Since when you know her?

i wanted to find ALL the threads where i asked for girl advice and i found this

http://www.juventuz.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6779

 

[V]

Approval of her mother? Is she 13?

Anyway, she told you she needed approval, perhaps her mother really is screwed up, don't look too much into it. Ask her for a cup of coffee or movie or anything that couldn't put her in harms way, so her mother approves, and see how it goes. If she again ditches you, send her mother a dead cat by post.

 

[Red]

Have you thought about asking out her Mum instead? :eyebrows:

 

[fender06]

and last sunday, i asked her go out for a lunch through SMS, she called me back and i asked her again, she again didn't refuse me , she just asked her mother if there's lunch prepared at home, a few second later she said sorry to me coz her mother had prepared the lunch ........damn

 

[Lawnchair Bes]

i think you fond your answer

 

[V]

LOL, stay away from that man.

 

[RAMI-N]

Have you thought about asking out her Mum instead? :eyebrows:

 

[fender06]

oh shit ..i think i may have a chance.. haha
coz when we were about that concert, i told her i couldn't find friends to go with me
she encourage me to invite my "target"
then she said something that being a girl, she prefer passive rather than active

maybe i think too much on it, thinking that she may like to see my invitation. HAHA

 

[Luca]

You should have asked her out in person, not by SMS. It makes you seem like you are really uncomfortable around her.

 

[Lion]

move on. There are more fish in the sea.

 

[petersmit]

ehm.. a bit off topic... do people do this often? ask help on juventuz.com about girls?

on topic: i had the same thing with my ex girlfriend a couple years ago... and we allready had a relationship...

"hey.. want to go to a movie?
noooo.. i eh.... am allready going with *.......* (girlfriend)
how about next week?
i dont know... i have some tests comming up... "

and this shit every time... when i asked her to do something 10 times.. 9 times she refused...

i dumped her, so if your target is doing this shit now allready.. i'd say move on.. or test if she really tells you the truth!

 

[gray]

move on. There are more fish in the sea.

Exactly.

Even if she's totally into you and she's been telling the truth, why the hell would you want to hang around a girl who has to ask her Mum for permission to blow her nose?

 

[petersmit]

how old is she by the way?

 

[fender06]

i think this section (hangout) can let members talk any topics , isn't it?

 

[petersmit]

yes it is... i was just asking...
i might even do it myself..

 

[HelterSkelter]

Yes it's an excuse.And a very poor one too.

 

[fender06]

how old is she by the way?

18...seems quite silly to ask mother's approval...

 

[petersmit]

hmm... true...

well... if you really want something with her.. ask her mother if you may go out with her daughter lol