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icemaη

Rab's Husband - The Regista
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Home country, country of residence, country where your house is, isn't it just playing with words?
It isn't. They sound similar but they are far from being the same. It might change from culture to culture. I will give you that.
 

Martin

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Dec 31, 2000
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icεmαή;2794507 said:
It isn't. They sound similar but they are far from being the same. It might change from culture to culture. I will give you that.
I don't really understand your point. What is it that is at stake here?
 

Seven

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Jun 25, 2003
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icεmαή;2794500 said:
Thats not right (not here and in the Arab world). Here home country is your country of origin. You country of residence would be Qatar.
So a place you have never been to might be "home" to you?

It was illustrated perfectly when Tony Soprano went to Italy. They call themselves Italian and will say Italy is their home, but when they actually go there all they can say is "fuck, THIS is Italy?". And they notice that they're not adapted to the country at all.

The same could happen to you guys. You'll see. It's not home.
 

Martin

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Dec 31, 2000
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#85
So a place you have never been to might be "home" to you?

It was illustrated perfectly when Tony Soprano went to Italy. They call themselves Italian and will say Italy is their home, but when they actually go there all they can say is "fuck, THIS is Italy?". And they notice that they're not adapted to the country at all.

The same could happen to you guys. You'll see. It's not home.
Yeah, this is a strange kind of delusion. People brought up to think that where they are is just a kind of waiting room, where they really belong is a place they've never been.

We are so much more a product of our environment than we realize.
 

icemaη

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#86
So a place you have never been to might be "home" to you?

It was illustrated perfectly when Tony Soprano went to Italy. They call themselves Italian and will say Italy is their home, but when they actually go there all they can say is "fuck, THIS is Italy?". And they notice that they're not adapted to the country at all.

The same could happen to you guys. You'll see. It's not home.
I lived almost 16 years of my life in the UAE. The whole of my childhood and youth. Yet when I came back to India, I felt at home the moment I set foot here. So much so that I decided to stay here as long as I can. Been living here ever since. This is home.
 

icemaη

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#87
Yeah, this is a strange kind of delusion. People brought up to think that where they are is just a kind of waiting room, where they really belong is a place they've never been.

We are so much more a product of our environment than we realize.
Like I said, its a cultural thing. I don't expect you to understand because you aren't in my (our) shoes. To call it a strange kind of delusion is a bit naive.
 

Martin

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icεmαή;2794546 said:
I lived almost 16 years of my life in the UAE. The whole of my childhood and youth. Yet when I came back to India, I felt at home the moment I set foot here. So much so that I decided to stay here as long as I can. Been living here ever since. This is home.
For real? I never heard about this before.

It does sound like you were living in a complete India bubble if you felt so at home in India instantly.
 

icemaη

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For real? I never heard about this before.

It does sound like you were living in a complete India bubble if you felt so at home in India instantly.
Its what I relate to. I lived in a multicultural society and hung out with other Emiratis as well. But I was never Arab, and I never would be one even if I didn't return to India. Thats how it is. Its the same with almost all my friends there.
And just for facts, I could have stayed, studied and worked there. But I chose to come back to India. Best decision I ever made. Also I got to see Dubai in a completely different light, one which isn't pretty at all.
 

Martin

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icεmαή;2794559 said:
Its what I relate to. I lived in a multicultural society and hung out with other Emiratis as well. But I was never Arab, and I never would be one even if I didn't return to India. Thats how it is. Its the same with almost all my friends there.
And just for facts, I could have stayed, studied and worked there. But I chose to come back to India. Best decision I ever made. Also I got to see Dubai in a completely different light, one which isn't pretty at all.
Don't take it the wrong way, but that sounds really... sad.
 

swag

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Sep 23, 2003
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#93
So a place you have never been to might be "home" to you?

It was illustrated perfectly when Tony Soprano went to Italy. They call themselves Italian and will say Italy is their home, but when they actually go there all they can say is "fuck, THIS is Italy?". And they notice that they're not adapted to the country at all.

The same could happen to you guys. You'll see. It's not home.
The Tony Soprano case is a good example.

Or even if you leave a place and come back years later. There's this fallacy that a land or a people or a home are in stasis, frozen in time for you to pop out of the cryogenic lab anytime you want to go back.

But you know what? It always changes, with or without you. The one thing you can always count on is the change. You're kidding yourself if you think the place you left, or have yet ever to see, isn't changing without you -- changing away from what you identify as home.

One of the great ironies in the Cape Town paper this morning was a story about world immigration. South Africa had about 220,000 last year, the most in the world, with the U.S. second at 42,000. At least the "legal" kind, I suppose where those numbers came from. Israel, it reported, is facing immigration issues like any other country on earth. Africans are bypassing the mess in Egypt and heading straight for Israel in search of jobs, income, a more stable family life -- changing Israel's cultural landscape.

It just supports this notion that a "true" race or culture is just a momentary fallacy. We are all changing, and there's nothing any nation can do to stop it. Only to slow it down.

For real? I never heard about this before.

It does sound like you were living in a complete India bubble if you felt so at home in India instantly.
Oddly, I kind of experienced that myself. I've been in a lot of places around the world, and when I was in India for the first time, even this white boy was struck by something strange there. I felt like it was completely foreign, like another planet, but at the same time I identified with the people and the thinking and the life there intimately. For some bizarre reason, it resonated with me like no place else on earth other than my home country. It made me half-jokingly believe that I must have been a Desi in a previous life.

I don't quite know how to explain that. It's like I felt as if I were on another planet but yet closer to my more primitive, essential self at the same time. It's pretty f'ed up.
 

Martin

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Oddly, I kind of experienced that myself. I've been in a lot of places around the world, and when I was in India for the first time, even this white boy was struck by something strange there. I felt like it was completely foreign, like another planet, but at the same time I identified with the people and the thinking and the life there intimately. For some bizarre reason, it resonated with me like no place else on earth other than my home country. It made me half-jokingly believe that I must have been a Desi in a previous life.

I don't quite know how to explain that. It's like I felt as if I were on another planet but yet closer to my more primitive, essential self at the same time. It's pretty f'ed up.
I've had that feeling in various places as a tourist. But I suppose it depends how strongly you feel it.
 

Martin

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icεmαή;2794604 said:
Whats sad for you, is happiness to me my friend :)
This kind of "if you're not an Arab you can never become an Arab" thing that you said, that kind of mentality makes me depressed.
 

Eddy

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Aug 20, 2005
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#97
It is a delusion. Whether or not you're able to make it work is something else.
Where would refugees be from if they got eradicated from their home ? Would they be from where they were before they got eradicated or where they are now, even though they can't go back. In a diaspora sense.
 

Eddy

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Aug 20, 2005
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This kind of "if you're not an Arab you can never become an Arab" thing that you said, that kind of mentality makes me depressed.
That is the Arab mentality. But it's also rich in a way if you think about it, it's not that they don't want to intertwine with anyone but it also keeps their civilization rich. But it also increases nationalism. Only a small amount of Arab countries allow the "Oh, you have our citizenship ? Then be proud, you're an Arab now" or to a degree like that, even though there not "technically" Arab. It's kind of like the Armenians in Syria, Lebanon, Palestine and Israel.

On another note, to people who claim the "true race or culture is just a momentary fallacy", it's not that there bragging about their "true race" (although some are) but it's because they don't want to forget where their from and who they were, and perhaps, just maybe, continue living that culture with a wife or husband who shares the same trait. Geez, if people want to forget their past, that's fine, but to brag people about where their from and where their really from is just, to an extent, quite wrong as it's different in the West and East.

I know exactly how Iceman, Fred and ReBel feel and I am on the same boat.
 

Martin

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That is the Arab mentality. But it's also rich in a way if you think about it, it's not that they don't want to intertwine with anyone but it also keeps their civilization rich. But it also increases nationalism. Only a small amount of Arab countries allow the "Oh, you have our citizenship ? Then be proud, you're an Arab now" or to a degree like that, even though there not "technically" Arab. It's kind of like the Armenians in Syria, Lebanon, Palestine and Israel.

On another note, to people who claim the "true race or culture is just a momentary fallacy", it's not that there bragging about their "true race" (although some are) but it's because they don't want to forget where their from and who they were, and perhaps, just maybe, continue living that culture with a wife or husband who shares the same trait. Geez, if people want to forget their past, that's fine, but to brag people about where their from and where their really from is just, to an extent, quite wrong as it's different in the West and East.

I know exactly how Iceman feels and I am on the same boat.
I'm not a big fan of birth right arguments. That someone should be privileged just because he happened to have been born some place, something he had no influence on.

Anything argued on the terms "you weren't born into it therefore you are banned from it" is very suspect to me.
 

Eddy

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Aug 20, 2005
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I'm not a big fan of birth right arguments. That someone should be privileged just because he happened to have been born some place, something he had no influence on.

Anything argued on the terms "you weren't born into it therefore you are banned from it" is very suspect to me.
That's what I'm against as well but you and Seven are bashing the neutrality as well. Neutrality, as in "You're part here, part here and part here, depending on where you've lived in your life." So there's actually 2 subjects here. One is the country you're living in doesn't give you the nationality to be from "there", and Two, the individual which states his country of origin is his truest and not the countries he's lived in before. I've pretty much encountered both of them, thanks to living in the UAE, and being part of a diaspora after 1915.
 

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