Gay Adoption (8 Viewers)
- Thread starter Sheik Yerbouti
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Id go for "Disciplined, Hearing whats being said before nagging, sets guidelines, Role Model, good provider, teacher, integrity, tough but fair, children feel protected (physically, psychologically), not afraid to own up to ones mistake, brave"
The problem is that theres no cut clear line here obviously. You can begin telling me about a woman who is a role model and brave etc. However What im doing here is generalising. So how do you expect me to be specific? If you put 5 Men and 5 Women in the room, youd find that the characteristics id mentioned would fall more towards the men than the women. That doesnt imply by any means that some women would have this and that. What I mean by balance is simply that theres a better chance of gaining the right upbringing and mentality with both a father and mother because there are characteristics that a mother instills in her child that a father couldnt.
The problem is that theres no cut clear line here obviously. You can begin telling me about a woman who is a role model and brave etc. However What im doing here is generalising. So how do you expect me to be specific? If you put 5 Men and 5 Women in the room, youd find that the characteristics id mentioned would fall more towards the men than the women. That doesnt imply by any means that some women would have this and that. What I mean by balance is simply that theres a better chance of gaining the right upbringing and mentality with both a father and mother because there are characteristics that a mother instills in her child that a father couldnt.
Yes, but hence that I wasn't only talking about mother's relationship with baby but also and mainly about how these things can be a total mess in our society which is more important than who's relationship with the baby is better.
Of course.
But calling you 4eyes wouldn't piss you off as much as mocking how your father is fucking your other father.
Is that your definition of living happy and peaceful? How about I bring you 50boys lets say who are into fucking Sheeps and pigs, would you enable them to live happy and peaceful since they're not hurting anyone? Would you officially allow sex with animals if it was up to you when it can't hurt no one?
Finding it normal living in a society where men are fucking men. Again, lets say we pass this phase and everybody gets along with this idea, what's next? Pedophiles raping kids in public? What if 5000 want this? Isn't it their human rights?
Of course.
But calling you 4eyes wouldn't piss you off as much as mocking how your father is fucking your other father.
Is that your definition of living happy and peaceful? How about I bring you 50boys lets say who are into fucking Sheeps and pigs, would you enable them to live happy and peaceful since they're not hurting anyone? Would you officially allow sex with animals if it was up to you when it can't hurt no one?
Finding it normal living in a society where men are fucking men. Again, lets say we pass this phase and everybody gets along with this idea, what's next? Pedophiles raping kids in public? What if 5000 want this? Isn't it their human rights?
Well its certainly unfair on the child to be in that state, but then we ask the question on the larger scale here as you said. Its the behaviour adopted from a fucked up social culture. Teenage mothers, and mothers who cant bring up their child, or bastards or whatever reason. Its only right that the social norm is changed in a country has to be targetted at the media to educate people the sanctity of producing kids in the first place and their responsibility. Its sad to say in the 3rd world countries, where a father doesnt even have bread to eat for himself, he strives to get a morsel of food for his child. That for me portrays the difference.
I never said I have the evidence that children raised by gay parents have more chances to become gay. Don't put words I did not say. I said Biologically and Scientifically a baby/child needs his mother more than his father.
But also, I wouldn't say it's far away from a child raised by gay parents becoming gay himself. I wouldn't be surprised at all, in-fact I'd say he wouldn't mind trying it.
But also, I wouldn't say it's far away from a child raised by gay parents becoming gay himself. I wouldn't be surprised at all, in-fact I'd say he wouldn't mind trying it.
Ok thats more like it.
Im talking about the bigger problem, leaving these kids to be adopted in the first place. In countries like Afhanistan, you will find that most people find it hard to look after their children, simply because they have died (due to number of things, wars, higher mortality rate, lower life expectancy and so on) Whilst coming more closer to home, you will find that most kids aint orphan, but kids whose parents decided, "shit I didnt expect this" "cant be assed" or "fuck thats one ugly kid", sort of mentalities.