Does size matter? (3 Viewers)
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I am flooded with questions each day from men worried about the size of their penis. Men of all ages are uneasy about ‘it’; they’d like to know whether they're well endowed, whether they can improve upon it, and if so how! Central to all their questions is – THE size!
“What is the normal length of the penis?” “Do big people have bigger ones?” “How can I enlarge my penis?” are some of the common questions. Most men assume-mistakenly -that the better endowed they are, the better sexual techniques they can employ and better lovers would they be.
Dubious Enlargement Methods
Many of my readers, who have been spending their hard earned money on dubious penis enlargement methods, would be disappointed, and many others would be relieved to know that this is not so!
Most young men imagine the size of their penis to be the “central issue” for good sex. Probably because it has been the oft discussed issue amongst them since their adolescence, they imagine that girls and women too would be thinking and talking about IT.
How average is the ‘average’?
This phalo-centric view of sex reflects not only the prevailing mores but also the ‘sexual ignorance’ that most men suffer from and the problems and complexes arising due to that ignorance.
There is no standard size for a penis though the “average” – the statistical average –is between 4.5 to 5.5 inches. Fortunately nature has given equal “privileges” – erectile and staying capacity - for all sizes.
Another question that men usually ask me is “Wouldn’t a longer penis satisfy a woman better?” Boys and men – who themselves may be enamoured with the size of some female body parts - imagine that the thick long penis is a pre-requisite for a happy successful, joyous, sexually fulfilling life. But this isn't so.
Wouldn’t A Longer penis Satisfy A Woman Better?
The anatomical and physiological facts related to a woman’s reproductive canal and sexual functioning can assist us in answering this question. Women - though are responsive all over- primarily perceive sexually pleasurable sensations from the clitoris –the most sexually sensitive organ- and the vaginal canal. The vagina is a potential space.
However - and here comes the catch - only the FIRST TWO INCHES or so of the vaginal canal are responsive and sensitive! And that means that the adequate length of the penis "required" to have satisfying sex is somewhere near TWO AND A HALF inches! And most boys and men have more than that.
Just for record it is the MAN who has the biggest penis among all -out of 193 species - primates. Even Gorillas have smaller ones! In fact it is a mystery why men have penises bigger than this size – probably for convenience in urinary excretion!
More Than Mere Sex
Most men need to know that sex is much more than a mechanical or a physical act. In fact mechanics have least to do with it! We all need to understand that the sexual triggers and activities that bring sexual pleasure are different for men and women. Women derive greater pleasure from relationship factors; unlike most men who seem to be performance centered.
In most surveys conducted by various agencies on what satisfies them, most women opted for a conglomeration of circumstances including sensitivity, gentleness, longer foreplay, care for the woman’s feelings, deep love and relaxed ambience. Face (55%), hair, shoulders, chest and hands in that order were ranked as top five male attributes by women responding to a recent sex survey in U.K.
The penis morphology ranked much lower -if at all! Women prefer contact, emotional intimacy, gentle foreplay and undemanding, easy, relaxing sex – all of which are in no way dependent on the size of the penis!
Love And Emotions
Men, thus, erroneously believe that the dimensions of the penis are of great importance for sexual techniques and for the satisfaction of a sexual partner. Men with a bigger penis are not necessarily better lovers and may in fact end up hurting their partners – believe me - I have counseled such couples!
If at all, the thickness or the length of penis plays only a limited role in giving pleasure to a woman - which is of providing her with visual delight or fantasy. If size does matter at all - it is the large heartedness of a man, the breadth of his love and the depth of his feelings for his partner that have a significant role. As they say - it is the "man" behind the machine who matters most!
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I am flooded with questions each day from men worried about the size of their penis. Men of all ages are uneasy about ‘it’; they’d like to know whether they're well endowed, whether they can improve upon it, and if so how! Central to all their questions is – THE size!
“What is the normal length of the penis?” “Do big people have bigger ones?” “How can I enlarge my penis?” are some of the common questions. Most men assume-mistakenly -that the better endowed they are, the better sexual techniques they can employ and better lovers would they be.
Dubious Enlargement Methods
Many of my readers, who have been spending their hard earned money on dubious penis enlargement methods, would be disappointed, and many others would be relieved to know that this is not so!
Most young men imagine the size of their penis to be the “central issue” for good sex. Probably because it has been the oft discussed issue amongst them since their adolescence, they imagine that girls and women too would be thinking and talking about IT.
How average is the ‘average’?
This phalo-centric view of sex reflects not only the prevailing mores but also the ‘sexual ignorance’ that most men suffer from and the problems and complexes arising due to that ignorance.
There is no standard size for a penis though the “average” – the statistical average –is between 4.5 to 5.5 inches. Fortunately nature has given equal “privileges” – erectile and staying capacity - for all sizes.
Another question that men usually ask me is “Wouldn’t a longer penis satisfy a woman better?” Boys and men – who themselves may be enamoured with the size of some female body parts - imagine that the thick long penis is a pre-requisite for a happy successful, joyous, sexually fulfilling life. But this isn't so.
Wouldn’t A Longer penis Satisfy A Woman Better?
The anatomical and physiological facts related to a woman’s reproductive canal and sexual functioning can assist us in answering this question. Women - though are responsive all over- primarily perceive sexually pleasurable sensations from the clitoris –the most sexually sensitive organ- and the vaginal canal. The vagina is a potential space.
However - and here comes the catch - only the FIRST TWO INCHES or so of the vaginal canal are responsive and sensitive! And that means that the adequate length of the penis "required" to have satisfying sex is somewhere near TWO AND A HALF inches! And most boys and men have more than that.
Just for record it is the MAN who has the biggest penis among all -out of 193 species - primates. Even Gorillas have smaller ones! In fact it is a mystery why men have penises bigger than this size – probably for convenience in urinary excretion!
More Than Mere Sex
Most men need to know that sex is much more than a mechanical or a physical act. In fact mechanics have least to do with it! We all need to understand that the sexual triggers and activities that bring sexual pleasure are different for men and women. Women derive greater pleasure from relationship factors; unlike most men who seem to be performance centered.
In most surveys conducted by various agencies on what satisfies them, most women opted for a conglomeration of circumstances including sensitivity, gentleness, longer foreplay, care for the woman’s feelings, deep love and relaxed ambience. Face (55%), hair, shoulders, chest and hands in that order were ranked as top five male attributes by women responding to a recent sex survey in U.K.
The penis morphology ranked much lower -if at all! Women prefer contact, emotional intimacy, gentle foreplay and undemanding, easy, relaxing sex – all of which are in no way dependent on the size of the penis!
Love And Emotions
Men, thus, erroneously believe that the dimensions of the penis are of great importance for sexual techniques and for the satisfaction of a sexual partner. Men with a bigger penis are not necessarily better lovers and may in fact end up hurting their partners – believe me - I have counseled such couples!
If at all, the thickness or the length of penis plays only a limited role in giving pleasure to a woman - which is of providing her with visual delight or fantasy. If size does matter at all - it is the large heartedness of a man, the breadth of his love and the depth of his feelings for his partner that have a significant role. As they say - it is the "man" behind the machine who matters most!
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Erik and Chx, you guys def are some of my favorite members, but i have a story for you.
When my girlfriend and I first got together, she said she needed three things, she needed me to be loyal, not to go out messing around on her, so I said, well, yea, no problem. Second, she said she needed me to help her out by allowing her some space, i said, no problem, i need my space too. Third she said, I need a solid 8 inches every night.......so i called the doctor, and he said he could surgically remove 2 inches so I could give her that solid 8.
When my girlfriend and I first got together, she said she needed three things, she needed me to be loyal, not to go out messing around on her, so I said, well, yea, no problem. Second, she said she needed me to help her out by allowing her some space, i said, no problem, i need my space too. Third she said, I need a solid 8 inches every night.......so i called the doctor, and he said he could surgically remove 2 inches so I could give her that solid 8.
