I'm a fairly religious and spiritual person. I'll chuck my 2c in for what it's worth.
I value and respect the opinions of everyone here, and everyone I encounter. I don't like it when people try to force those beliefs on others, though. Either it be the religious side, or the atheist side - or even religion v religion.
Personally, my beliefs differ a little from what I've been grown up with. I find there are plenty of holes in some religious teachings, so it is only human nature to question them. If those questions cannot be answered, then I form my own opinion of the meaning/occurrence/ritual/belief etc. I'm not going to be brainless and just accept anything that is fed to me.
I would never "debate" with someone as to whether a certain person existed, or whether certain things actually occurred, or whatever. The most important thing for me is this:
The Bible, for example, is full of stories. Metaphors, messages, etc. The message behind everything, whether you believe what is actually written or not, is quite nice and beautiful - is it not? Peace, love, respect, forgiveness, ra ra ra. If people I encounter value the messages behind the readings, then we'll get along splendidly. Atheist, agnostic, religious - it doesn't matter. As long as people appreciate the message religion genuinely projects, then that's all that matters.
Debating anything else is futile.