So if I'm scared of the law, then.... it's the law making me good, not god. So much for god making us good.
Who said that you can only strive to better yourself for god? Who said that there is no purpose to life other than to make god happy?
These are your assumptions. I don't know how you came up with them, but they're ridiculous.
You have that completely backwards. Have you ever heard of the
Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster? It's a religion, or rather a parody religion. So let me do what you do for a minute. "if there was such a thing as a real non believer in the church of the flying spaghetti monster he would not last 1 week". Well do you believe in the spaghetti monster? If not, you have one week to live.