How does he see her? he sees her face only right? He doesn't see her hands he doesn't see toes he doesn't see nothing man apart from the face and infront of her mother and the whole family

... why can't they go also out before there's anything official?? What if one of them is mentally fucked and can't live for a day with the other?
All these tiny things matter Abed. And you know that. You married your wife (allah ykhalikon la ba3ed) and you're very aware why I'm asking all these questions.