brothers...i wanna to cry now >,< (7 Viewers)

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Bozi

The Bozman
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Oct 18, 2005
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:disagree: MEN!
PS: Never and i mean Neuer ask men(brothers) to give u advise on woman :faq1:
what??trust me this works a treat.

I agree with the Bozman on this one. If she knows you love her, and she doesn't care about it, then you need to move on. That "friendship" is giving you squat, just pain. There are way too many girls out there to be sweating over one.
like i said the first mistake was to become friends, she will view you as non-threatening and as such non-sexual as you are friends. if you really like a girl you gotta lay your cards on the table before its too late. otherwise you will always be on the outside,wishing you were in

fender06: the best thing you can do is to listen to Bozi, he is a specialist for such storys.. and he is also working in hospital..:D
i have been around the block and my advice is generally sound:agree:


Agree with Bozi..and now that you're in this kind of situation, you need to tell her how you feel. Keeping quiet is gonna hurt you more. Just tell her how you feel, and even if you still wouldn't have a chance to have something more with her, you would feel better though.
sitting on it longer will just lead to more hurt, if it does not happen now, it will never happena nd the longer she sees you as just a friend...well.....you know

Fender u sound quite young & the problem with most youngsters is that they think they know what love is.Your problem is infatuation,plain & simple!

The fact that you only wanna make a move because ur friend is interested shows that ur not serious at all.Listen to Bozi or get some weed,hire some ladies of the night & booze the night away.
tahts a plan i can get down with
 

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Bozi

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its going alright, had a bit of a bad run with injuries lately. cracked a rib, strained my achilles,bruised a bone in my foot...all playing football but am just getting ready to take the dog out then go to the gym again.
gonna start getting some whey and creatinine from next month and really start to be serious about it.

what about you man?
 

Byrone

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Dec 19, 2005
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its going alright, had a bit of a bad run with injuries lately. cracked a rib, strained my achilles,bruised a bone in my foot...all playing football but am just getting ready to take the dog out then go to the gym again.
gonna start getting some whey and creatinine from next month and really start to be serious about it.

what about you man?
Its been brilliant! Ive shed about 6kg's body fat & im all lean muscle now.:D My day consists of 5 meals a day.

7am - Breakfast

11am - whey protein shake

3pm - vegetable juice (yes vegie juice:sick:) & any 2 fruit.

6pm - generous portion of salad & any 2 fruit.

9pm - same salad story & protein (generally tuna,hake,turkey or chicken)

Ive taken phedra -cut & thats helped me big time! I stay away from creatine or any muscle building products as I tend to gain bulk naturally.

What products are u on now?
 

Bozi

The Bozman
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Oct 18, 2005
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Its been brilliant! Ive shed about 6kg's body fat & im all lean muscle now.:D My day consists of 5 meals a day.

7am - Breakfast

11am - whey protein shake

3pm - vegetable juice (yes vegie juice:sick:) & any 2 fruit.

6pm - generous portion of salad & any 2 fruit.

9pm - same salad story & protein (generally tuna,hake,turkey or chicken)

Ive taken phedra -cut & thats helped me big time! I stay away from creatine or any muscle building products as I tend to gain bulk naturally.

What products are u on now?
at the moment just a good diet as i am not naturally bulky,if i shed the little fat i have i would be quite slim so need the whey to help bulk me out a wee bit
 

Byrone

Peen Meister
Dec 19, 2005
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at the moment just a good diet as i am not naturally bulky,if i shed the little fat i have i would be quite slim so need the whey to help bulk me out a wee bit
Look one warning about the whey protein,its gonna make the hiroshima bombings seem like a joke!Ur gonna be exploding like a badly run nuclear plant so just be warned.:D

Well the vegies help bring down the belly fat quite fast so just pump the vegetables.You can either steam the vegies or boil them with brown rice.Its best if u have them in its raw format as u get more vitamins & minerals out of them that way.

Get ur ass on msn if u can,ill give u more advice bro.
 

Azzurri7

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Dec 16, 2003
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Well, I was thinking about it for a while, because I care about you brother.... but this is what you do:

Kill them both and burn their bodies after hanging them from one of your windows for approximately 2 or 3 days.

Murder is legal in King Kong right? Meh screw it, do it anyway.
:lol:
 

petersmit

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Mar 14, 2006
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damn.. if i had a diet like that i would fall apart in a day...
im very thin.. but i way more than the rest of my mates... but the weird thing is that i eat like 2 persons :p

on topic: i just want to say im pleased that this guy can talk on a forum with many guys and girls he doesn't know that well and he gets many advice.. :)

my advice: i know its hard.. but you must play open book.. tell her everything.. things like you want to be with her and that kind of things... i hope it'll work :)
 
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fender06

fender06

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    damn.. if i had a diet like that i would fall apart in a day...
    im very thin.. but i way more than the rest of my mates... but the weird thing is that i eat like 2 persons :p

    on topic: i just want to say im pleased that this guy can talk on a forum with many guys and girls he doesn't know that well and he gets many advice.. :)

    my advice: i know its hard.. but you must play open book.. tell her everything.. things like you want to be with her and that kind of things... i hope it'll work :)
    i feel supports and get advice from this forum, thanks many brothers!

    i make a promise to myself, i must tell her everything 2 months later after the public exam
     

    Cuti

    The Real MC
    Jul 30, 2006
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    i make a promise to myself, i must tell her everything 2 months later after the public exam
    leaving it a bit late no? In the space of 2 months they could have gotten together, broken up, had break up sex, gotten back together and broken up again. And there will still be 1 month left!
     

    Bozi

    The Bozman
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    Oct 18, 2005
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    guess i was wrong bout u
    :cry: but i stil luv ya :toast:
    i dont know any girl who would fall for that
    what? i am a nice guy, but i wasnt always:angel:
    plus teh basic facts of life is that women always want the guys who dont care about them/aint that interested in them most of the time. the guys current course of action is destined for heartbreak, he canm aither lay it all on the line, or accept it aint gonna happen, however if he tries my advice he may be surprised. dont ask me why, women are just mental that way
     

    Lilith

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    May 19, 2006
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    what? i am a nice guy, but i wasnt always:angel:
    plus teh basic facts of life is that women always want the guys who dont care about them/aint that interested in them most of the time. the guys current course of action is destined for heartbreak, he canm aither lay it all on the line, or accept it aint gonna happen, however if he tries my advice he may be surprised. dont ask me why, women are just mental that way

    Bozi speaks the truth. The guys who are too available never gets you. It's the same thing that men do anyway though Bozman so it works both ways. :p I think it's our animal nature, we like danger and we like to chase.

    Anyway as for your situation, if they both like each other then let them be. I was in a similar situation where one guy thought he had claim to me because he knew me longer even though the other one and I liked each other a lot. He played the best friend card and I was the one who ended up hurt in the end. They will both resent you in the end of you try and come between them.

    You should have told her initially though. That way she could have given you an answer and you would have known how to proceed from there instead of continuing to make yourself miserable by pining after her. :)

    If she is not interested then move on, there are plenty of other girls out there. It's easier said than done but time heals and you'll find yourself crushing on someone else in no time.
     

    Vidocq

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    Sep 9, 2006
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    yesterday, one friend of mine told me that he met a girl looks like a girl we were studying together in primary school.

    he asked me her MSN, and i was too stupid and honest, i gave it to him
    and yesterday evening, i told the girl ( she and I are good friend, but i love her...)
    about giving her MSN to my friend, and i can't believe that she told me she also saw that boy in a restaurant ( so they actually met each other at the same time, but just can't remember each other immediately)

    the girl then asked me to give my friend's MSN to her
    so now the situation is they seem getting close quickly...
    i can see my friend wrote comment in the girl's xanga...

    damn...what can i do??? i am seeing my friend getting with my target....wtf..:cry:

    You screw thing in the begining.. Maybe if you explain your friend how stupid you were to give him her msn.. maybe he will have mercy for you..
     
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