With or against Marriage? (12 Viewers)

With marriage or against it?

  • Marry

  • Don't marry

  • I'm undecided

  • I don't really care


Results are only viewable after voting.

Dragon

Senior Member
Apr 24, 2003
27,407
I don't know how emotionally one can be to know if he's ready for the big step. I think only once I felt it but then again I wasn't really mature.

I'm not in-love. It takes time for me to fall in-love or to emotionally have strong bond for the person. Not that I am happy with myself like this.
Well of course. I'm like that too
 

swag

L'autista
Administrator
Sep 23, 2003
84,142
My mom would always tell me the day you'll go out with a girl and enjoy your date and spending time with her without thinking sexually of her will be the day you're ready to commit:D(so by her logic/theory, I haven't met the right one yet)
Your mom has some wisdom there. Sex is great and it's important. But when you're totally young and driven largely by hormones, it can lead you into myopic decisions. I wouldn't go so far as your mom as to say you haven't experienced love until you have enjoyed her company without wanting to rip off her pants. But what's important in life is more than just ripping off pants. It's almost impossible to see any of that until you're at least 30 years old...
 
OP
Azzurri7

Azzurri7

Pinturicchio
Moderator
Dec 16, 2003
72,692
  • Thread Starter
  • Thread Starter #149
    Your mom has some wisdom there. Sex is great and it's important. But when you're totally young and driven largely by hormones, it can lead you into myopic decisions. I wouldn't go so far as your mom as to say you haven't experienced love until you have enjoyed her company without wanting to rip off her pants. But what's important in life is more than just ripping off pants. It's almost impossible to see any of that until you're at least 30 years old...
    Body hormones isn't the same when you hit your 30's no?

    You're not the only one with that sentiment about himself like that. :D
    Lets hug and touch each-others.
     

    Nedvěd

    Guest
    Change me into someone who's ready and welling to commit to her. To feel the no need of whoring myself from one girl to another. My mom would always tell me the day you'll go out with a girl and enjoy your date and spending time with her without thinking sexually of her will be the day you're ready to commit:D(so by her logic/theory, I haven't met the right one yet)
    .
    Seriously? You never enjoy the company of your girl without thinking sexually of the girl?
     

    icemaη

    Rab's Husband - The Regista
    Moderator
    Aug 27, 2008
    35,699
    am i for marriage? yes, otherwise i wouldn't be getting married in three days time... but i think it's a personal thing and like people already said it's something you'd want to do when the right girl came along... marriage does provide a lot of guarantees something you might not get otherwise... like swag said it makes you think twice before even thinking about walking away... i would not get married for the sake of getting married though even though i know people who would...
     
    OP
    Azzurri7

    Azzurri7

    Pinturicchio
    Moderator
    Dec 16, 2003
    72,692
  • Thread Starter
  • Thread Starter #159
    Nedvěd;3130616 said:
    Seriously? You never enjoy the company of your girl without thinking sexually of the girl?
    I never said that. I was explaining what my mother's point was.

    I said when someone enjoys the company of the girl he's dating without thinking when or where or how they're going to end up in bed it's then when the boy is seriously thinking and considering the girl for the future.
     

    Users Who Are Viewing This Thread (Users: 0, Guests: 12)