Rami said:
Are you sure you understand the concepts of Hijab and Mahram??
I never claimed I do know the concepts of Hijab and Mahram, bro.
I do know that man who wants to marry, will have to send his mother to check on the girl. And the only way he can see her face is either through photos or after getting married. I'm not talking about Saudi's here but in general.
I mean how can someone marry a woman he's not allowed to date her go out with her get to know her more, spend some-time with her, before sending his mom to check on the girl, and If she likes the girl then It's all for the boy, If she doesn't, then It's canceled.
Zé Tahir said:
@Rab: It makes perfect sense to us. Because we chose to respect our women. I don't have any sisters, but I have cousins, and I'll tell you, if she's walking down the street along with a scantily dressed girl, you'll never see a guy look at her nasty, why? because it's automatic respect. I'll never see an old man or anyone for that matter "checking out" my mother. Why? because hijab=respect. Some people though, do take it take other levels, and have the Afghan style "shuttle-cock" hijaab, which is wrong imo. Some women are even forced to wear it, because the idiots that force the women are...idiots, because the matter is between the woman and God, and no one else.
Brother,
I know It makes sense to you and some others,....But saying "we chose to repsect women"...does it mean that others chose not to respect their women? does it mean that others chose "prostitution" for their women??? I don't think so.
I don't know why the women to be soo respected has to cover her hair up. I do think that If women have strong charachter and know how to keep her reputation clean
and do know her limits she'll remain clean for herself and the others.
Oh believe me I've seen lot of women with scantily dress were approaching men, and believe me, I've seen some of them even going further. Please, Don't take me wrong.
I know Hijab=Respect, but I do think Respect can be applied in a different way. As I've said before a women can be respect If she
chose to be.
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Let me also tell you something, in Beirut Lebanon most of the Gulf women and I mean most of them do take their Hijab off over there. Have you guys ever wondered why?? Is It because no one can oblige them to wear it over there? Or Is it they wanna get rid of the Prison thing they had inside of them. As soon as It's their time to return back to their country they put it back at the Airport. I'm talking about something I've witnessed....I have no reason to create stories.
I hope Rami, Ze T, and the rest don't really get offended...It's just a discussion and It's great talking to you two....