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So I'd been seeing this really hot girl for a couple weeks. We had amazing sex, the chemistry was there, fluid back and forth texting with lots of flirting and banter. Easily the hottest chick I've banged.

Then suddenly she decides she doesn't want to see me anymore because I'd just come out of a long relationship. Fuck! I should've lied about that but whatever man. I went from 100 to 0.

I'm hurting a bit but I'm sure it'll pass in the next few days. Anyway, I realised that I've done the same or worse (ghosting after sex) to multiple chicks who were very into me. I even went and texted one last night to apologise for being such a dick lol.
She’s smart though for turning the situation and saying that it’s about you. Way smarter than the ‘it’s not you its me’ excuse. She’s a keeper
 

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Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,489
She’s smart though for turning the situation and saying that it’s about you. Way smarter than the ‘it’s not you its me’ excuse. She’s a keeper

Not for him tho.

If she doesnt want the long relationship baggage as she said*, but still find him fuckable/desirable look wise, she should contact his twin :p:D @InterMerda


So Claudio can go:



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Just kidding Hermano *Obviously that was a BS reason, she most likely just wants to fuck around/have fun, not get attached. She did a chad-bro move for sure. Modern women become more and more like males in the dating equation.
 

Post Ironic

Senior Member
Feb 9, 2013
42,253
So I'd been seeing this really hot girl for a couple weeks. We had amazing sex, the chemistry was there, fluid back and forth texting with lots of flirting and banter. Easily the hottest chick I've banged.

Then suddenly she decides she doesn't want to see me anymore because I'd just come out of a long relationship. Fuck! I should've lied about that but whatever man. I went from 100 to 0.

I'm hurting a bit but I'm sure it'll pass in the next few days. Anyway, I realised that I've done the same or worse (ghosting after sex) to multiple chicks who were very into me. I even went and texted one last night to apologise for being such a dick lol.
This is just about the most beta cuck move ever :lol2:
 

Scottish

Zebrastreifenpferd
Mar 13, 2011
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This is just about the most beta cuck move ever :lol2:
What do you mean, bro? Reflecting on your past fuckups and wanting to right them? That's growth right there.

Maybe the girl in question felt better for hearing the apology, maybe not. A lil bit cringe sure, but the proppa growth is learning from the experience and in future being straight up with the lassie instead of ghosting.
 

Mohad

The Ocean Star
May 20, 2009
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I don’t know Claudio personally, but that move to me seems like something someone who is emotionally abusive would do. He probably felt lonely and texted that girl, knowing how easily she can be manipulated, but deep down, he may ghost her again if he finds another attractive girl.
 

IliveForJuve

Burn this club
Jan 17, 2011
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Not for him tho.

If she doesnt want the long relationship baggage as she said*, but still find him fuckable/desirable look wise, she should contact his twin :p:D @InterMerda


So Claudio can go:



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Just kidding Hermano *Obviously that was a BS reason, she most likely just wants to fuck around/have fun, not get attached. She did a chad-bro move for sure. Modern women become more and more like males in the dating equation.
It's a weird one. She seemed more invested than me and would joke about being in a relationship with me. It was only after she learned about my long term relationship that she went colder and then a day later she cuts me off. But there's no point wondering what really happened.

On to the next hole.

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I don’t know Claudio personally, but that move to me seems like something someone who is emotionally abusive would do. He probably felt lonely and texted that girl, knowing how easily she can be manipulated, but deep down, he may ghost her again if he finds another attractive girl.
I don't intend to get with the girl I apologised to. I just said my apologies and that was it.
 

Post Ironic

Senior Member
Feb 9, 2013
42,253
What do you mean, bro? Reflecting on your past fuckups and wanting to right them? That's growth right there.

Maybe the girl in question felt better for hearing the apology, maybe not. A lil bit cringe sure, but the proppa growth is learning from the experience and in future being straight up with the lassie instead of ghosting.
I’m just messing with the maid-fucker, bro. Of course it’s a mature thing to do. :tup:
 

Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
39,327
Why would you assume it's racism
Because:
- everyone appears to be getting a medal.
- the black girl appears surprised she doesn't receive a medal.
- the person handing out the medal looks at the black girl, sees that she's surprised and that she's not wearing a medal yet moves on.

It looks like racism.

But it is so blatant I almost find it hard to believe that that is what it is, so I'm asking.
 

GordoDeCentral

Diez
Moderator
Apr 14, 2005
70,794
Because:
- everyone appears to be getting a medal.
- the black girl appears surprised she doesn't receive a medal.
- the person handing out the medal looks at the black girl, sees that she's surprised and that she's not wearing a medal yet moves on.

It looks like racism.

But it is so blatant I almost find it hard to believe that that is what it is, so I'm asking.
You have no idea the impetus of this event is actually racism. "Looks like racism" is simply you using pattern recognition to deduce this is a case of racism. I'll grant you this is racism if you use the same pattern recognition to concede most blacks are violent.
 

Seven

In bocca al lupo, Fabio.
Jun 25, 2003
39,327
You have no idea the impetus of this event is actually racism. "Looks like racism" is simply you using pattern recognition to deduce this is a case of racism. I'll grant you this is racism if you use the same pattern recognition to concede most blacks are violent.
Read my post again, please.

That's exactly what I said. I don't know.
 

GordoDeCentral

Diez
Moderator
Apr 14, 2005
70,794
Read my post again, please.

That's exactly what I said. I don't know.
I read it, sir. What i have a problem with is that "black" characterization is only mentioned if there is some perceived, mostly mistaken, grievance. Otherwise it's youths, teens, joggers... And this is what creates this environment of "optics" that destroys peoples lives over nothing.
 

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