Osman

Koul Khara!
Aug 30, 2002
61,502
Meh, it's not like people don't cheat while married. It's not even about maturity.
Marriage is still a serious commitment, doesnt matter others fucked up. It's about you and your decision that's kinda should be for life if it works out. He asked for advice and I simply reminded him if he wants to since he was unfaithful just recently.
 

Dostoevsky

Tzu
Administrator
May 27, 2007
89,020
Marriage is still a serious commitment, doesnt matter others fucked up. It's about you and your decision that's kinda should be for life if it works out. He asked for advice and I simply reminded him is he he wants to since he was unfaithful just recently.
No, I know, and I understand.

But it's just that nowadays cheating became a regular part of someones life, it's just a thing whether she'll (or him...) discover or not. Hell, I'm not even saying that's normal.

It's still hilarious and scary to see so many girls be perfect chameleons. They'll just act perfect, show the things you want to see, only to change their behavior when it fits later on when it's too late :D
 

IliveForJuve

Burn this club
Jan 17, 2011
18,932
Marriage is still a serious commitment, doesnt matter others fucked up. It's about you and your decision that's kinda should be for life if it works out. He asked for advice and I simply reminded him if he wants to since he was unfaithful just recently.
I have no doubt I want to be with this woman for the rest of my life. What you mentioned that I did was just me being an asshole. As I said, I'll never forgive myself for that.

I'll admit it's not ideal for me to get married right now. If we were in a different situation, I wouldn't even consider marrying at this age, no matter how much I love her. But logistics are simply hard to work out as things stand. If I propose to marry her soon, it will be so I can continue to be with her in her home country.

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No, I know, and I understand.

But it's just that nowadays cheating became a regular part of someones life, it's just a thing whether she'll (or him...) discover or not. Hell, I'm not even saying that's normal.

It's still hilarious and scary to see so many girls be perfect chameleons. They'll just act perfect, show the things you want to see, only to change their behavior when it fits later on when it's too late :D
Who left you this traumatized?
 
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Dostoevsky

Tzu
Administrator
May 27, 2007
89,020
I have no doubt I want to be with this woman for the rest of my life. What you mentioned that I did was just me being an asshole. As I said, I'll never forgive myself for that.

I'll admit it's not ideal for me to get married right now. If we were in a different situation, I wouldn't even consider marrying at this age, no matter how much I love her. But logistics are simply hard to work out as things stand. If I propose to marry her soon, it will be so I can continue to be with her in her home country.

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Where?
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
66,773
No, I know, and I understand.

But it's just that nowadays cheating became a regular part of someones life, it's just a thing whether she'll (or him...) discover or not. Hell, I'm not even saying that's normal.

It's still hilarious and scary to see so many girls be perfect chameleons. They'll just act perfect, show the things you want to see, only to change their behavior when it fits later on when it's too late :D
You have such a cynical view of women :D
 

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