Dostoevsky

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Happy couples? Let's start with happy individuals, how many do you know?

But if by happy couples you mean functioning and long lasting, yeah I know a few.

But the ones that don't, I wouldn't say women are any more or less to blame than men.
I know more happy individuals rather than happy couples. There's just too many that I know who'd easily cheat on their partners.

But no, even above I said pretty much the same about men as well. I think people are fucked up not just women. But I stated an example where woman behaves as a chameleon. I believe everybody met such women. I for sure met dozens of them. That doesn't make men angel, though.
 

Dostoevsky

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Marriage isn’t for me, but I know quite a few mostly happy couples that have been together for at least a decade plus.
An absolute doesn't exist. But IMO if you look at the bigger picture i think it's majority of the unhappy ones. Most of the time it's also kids being the reason they stay together just so family doesn't fall apart, but that doesn't mean they are happy as well.
 

Post Ironic

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An absolute doesn't exist. But IMO if you look at the bigger picture i think it's majority of the unhappy ones. Most of the time it's also kids being the reason they stay together just so family doesn't fall apart, but that doesn't mean they are happy as well.
Meh. The majority of people are dumb. And get together for the wrong reasons. Mostly loneliness.

Doesn’t mean that ILFJ/whoever can’t meet someone they are truly compatible with in terms of spending a lifetime together and enjoy that.
 

Quetzalcoatl

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I know more happy individuals rather than happy couples. There's just too many that I know who'd easily cheat on their partners.

But no, even above I said pretty much the same about men as well. I think people are fucked up not just women. But I stated an example where woman behaves as a chameleon. I believe everybody met such women. I for sure met dozens of them. That doesn't make men angel, though.
You're right, I put words in your mouth probably based off previous things you've said :D

Funny, I think many people can't stand/don't know how to be alone and would rather be in a shitty relationship than be single. That's sad.

Generally I don't think that there are that many happy people out there either way, single or couples.

Lol it's true about the kinds of women out there though. It can be a real surprise to find out some of them are bad :lol: They really know how to put on an act. Men, people are never really surprised when they hear about a man cheating, it's mostly expected.

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It's pretty much hatefully bitter level of extreme cynicism he has past years. Someone has really scorned in deeply that he isnt telling us about :D
Or he keeps meeting these women with husbands and sleeping with them :lol:
 

Dostoevsky

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Funny, I think many people can't stand/don't know how to be alone and would rather be in a shitty relationship than be single. That's sad.

Generally I don't think that there are that many happy people out there either way, single or couples.

Lol it's true about the kinds of women out there though. It can be a real surprise to find out some of them are bad :lol: They really know how to put on an act. Men, people are never really surprised when they hear about a man cheating, it's mostly expected.
That's 100%. People don't know to be alone because they never looked deep down in them to see who and what are they. Boredom dominates and they simply need to have a partner next to them, otherwise they can't function. That's terrible imo.

Habit can be a horrible thing. Most of the time you get into that routine, you get the habit to be alone as well, so later on you can't function next to somebody, you look for flaws in every single detail just so you could walk out.

Meh. The majority of people are dumb. And get together for the wrong reasons. Mostly loneliness.

Doesn’t mean that ILFJ/whoever can’t meet someone they are truly compatible with in terms of spending a lifetime together and enjoy that.
Of course. An average person is stupid. I believe that's the fact.

I never said ILFJ would be unhappy. I'm saying picking a partner for a relationship, let alone a marriage, is not an easy choice. Sure, it seems easy on the paper when compare interests, hobbies, life views, etc. But in reality there's always that BUT that messes a lot of things up. I even said about, it doesn't matter if you're young or old, I think it's always a gamble. My friend for example went out from a relationship that lasted for 11 years. It happened out of nowhere and everybody was saying how they are made for each other. I'm just saying it ain't that easy.

I never looked into it but I'd assume divorce rates are very high over the past 15 years and I think it will just keep on increasing. And no, I'm not saying it's impossible to be happy. And no, I don't see everything black. It's just an observation from my point of view.
 

X Æ A-12

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Women aren't total shit but a lot of them are entitled cunts and if you let them dictate things they will press it to see how far they can go.

Too many guys these days just taking whatever bs their girlfriends throw at them and the women end up resenting them even more because they aren't attracted to guys who are pussies.

Stand your ground and if that's an issue with her then dump her.
 

Post Ironic

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Nailed it.

I always get asked that. WHY DO YOU HATE WOMEN? WHICH ONE DUMPED YOU!? :cry: Trying to provoke or make fun of me and I'm like... dude... no... what the fuck...
Dusan, why do you hate women so much? I think you in need of some intensive 4th wave feminist psychoanalysis. :boh:

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:agree: a society that condemns masculinity will soon replaced by a society that doesn't (inshallah)
We being taken over by arabs and sharia law? :lol3:

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Why is it that people always assume one must hate women or have been hurt by them if he calls them out for what they are
What woman broke your heart, bro? Was it because she found out you are not actually the nephew of Alain Delon? ;)
 

IliveForJuve

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Women aren't total shit but a lot of them are entitled cunts and if you let them dictate things they will press it to see how far they can go.

Too many guys these days just taking whatever bs their girlfriends throw at them and the women end up resenting them even more because they aren't attracted to guys who are pussies.

Stand your ground and if that's an issue with her then dump her.
Just date women that act more like men.

Problem solved.
 

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