I don't disagree that there are endless conveniences ala dating apps and such that should make it possible but that is from my perspective. Plenty of people are unable to do it, fucked over by their upbringing, they are very immature in some fact etc i don't know.
It has also never seemed difficult to me to advance in school or to make money, once again so many avenues, but if it was really easy I don't think so many would have trouble with it. I guess I see it as people come from radically different places in life and I am trying be more sympathetic rather than judgemental.