What Are You Doing Right Now? (196 Viewers)

Seven

Seven

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Jun 25, 2003
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IliveForJuve said:
Yeah, you're right. She's not the type of person that would manipulate someone else. But still, getting the silence treatment for an entire day is way too much. It's not like I was caught cheating or flirting with someone else.

I got pissed off over something stupid when I was drunk and left the party she invited me to.
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The silent treatment is a very annoying and hurtful tactic employed by emotionally stunted morons. But not all silence is the silent treatment. Sometimes people are genuinely hurt or so goddamn angry that they just want to be left alone. In that case it's not always about you, but about them. When I'm very angry with someone, I grow cold towards them and I sure as fuck talk to them as little as possible. I don't do it to inflict pain upon them though, I do it because I want to focus on doing something productive and when I'm confronted with them at that moment all I feel is anger. I just need time to cool off. Maybe that's what she needs too.
 

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IliveForJuve

IliveForJuve

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Jan 17, 2011
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Seven said:
The silent treatment is a very annoying and hurtful tactic employed by emotionally stunted morons. But not all silence is the silent treatment. Sometimes people are genuinely hurt or so goddamn angry that they just want to be left alone. In that case it's not always about you, but about them. When I'm very angry with someone, I grow cold towards them and I sure as fuck talk to them as little as possible. I don't do it to inflict pain upon them though, I do it because I want to focus on doing something productive and when I'm confronted with them at that moment all I feel is anger. I just need time to cool off. Maybe that's what she needs too.
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:tup: I understand this as well. I've done myself, I mean, talking to someone as little as possible when I'm hurt/angry. Although I don't completely ignore that person but rather just give short responses.

I guess she's doing the same on a different scale. Just gotta wait it out.
 
enzo

enzo

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May 14, 2012
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Some days I am so focused or stressed at work I manage to successfully ignore any calls or messages. I'm not bothered with replying at all later on as well, as if it had not happened.

As @Seven said, sometimes one gotta be careful to not make things about you, when they are about something completely different.
 
Dostoevsky

Dostoevsky

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May 27, 2007
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king Ale said:
Thanks for bringing this to my attention :klin:

Much to my disappointment, nothing has changed since I last reached a conclusion regarding this recurring discussion: Nobody has loved Dusan, which is odd given how lovely a guy he is :agree:

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Dusan's world: where five mentally challenged guys, four mentally challenged girls, and one hot girl live in a basement. The guys don't approach the hot girl, and the hot girl is left empty-handed.
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Now that's just mean.
 
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