Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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Dostoevsky

Tzu
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May 27, 2007
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Btw. How unique is/was that ballet dancer girl you've been dating?
Quite unique in regards to her interests. She's a cool girl, quite open minded and nice to hang out with.

But not really dating, it was only sex. :D We stopped seeing each other because she wanted more than I did. She went through a divorce and found out how she needs a relationship cause she misses the attention which I wasn't giving her.

She deserves a gentleman like Dai


Lol that's sad :p
It is sad. But true as well.

How many times you see guys crushed because they lost a certain girl, moaning how it's the end of the world. When time passes and head goes into chill mode, they all find a better girl and realize all the flaws that the ex had while wondering how come they even were together for a long time.
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
66,757
Quite unique in regards to her interests. She's a cool girl, quite open minded and nice to hang out with.

But not really dating, it was only sex. :D We stopped seeing each other because she wanted more than I did. She went through a divorce and found out how she needs a relationship cause she misses the attention which I wasn't giving her.



It is sad. But true as well.

How many times you see guys crushed because they lost a certain girl, moaning how it's the end of the world. When time passes and head goes into chill mode, they all find a better girl and realize all the flaws that the ex had while wondering how come they even were together for a long time.
Look there's your own example.

If you're gonna go into a serious relationship it's worth doing so with someone "unique" or different rather than just any girl who can be easily replaced

But then again there are some guys who are just happy to be with anyone
 

DAiDEViL

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Feb 21, 2015
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Quite unique in regards to her interests. She's a cool girl, quite open minded and nice to hang out with.

But not really dating, it was only sex. :D We stopped seeing each other because she wanted more than I did. She went through a divorce and found out how she needs a relationship cause she misses the attention which I wasn't giving her.
Divorced already? How old is she?

People marrying way too young :disagree:
 

Dostoevsky

Tzu
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May 27, 2007
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Divorced already? How old is she?

People marrying way too young :disagree:
She turned 34 a month ago or so. Not really young.

Back in the day people were marrying when hitting 16-18 and 20+ was considered old and falls into "what the hell are you waiting". But people were more mature (and less informed too I suppose).

Look there's your own example.

If you're gonna go into a serious relationship it's worth doing so with someone "unique" or different rather than just any girl who can be easily replaced

But then again there are some guys who are just happy to be with anyone
The thing is, everyone thinks their gf is unique and special. But she's not. She's just one of the many and chances are high there are tons of girls better than her. It's pretty impossible not to be so.

You just start loving her for what she is and majority of that later on becomes a habit which is hard to kill (like any other habit).
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
66,757
She turned 34 a month ago or so. Not really young.

Back in the day people were marrying when hitting 16-18 and 20+ was considered old and falls into "what the hell are you waiting". But people were more mature (and less informed too I suppose).



The thing is, everyone thinks their gf is unique and special. But she's not. She's just one of the many and chances are high there are tons of girls better than her. It's pretty impossible not to be so.

You just start loving her for what she is and majority of that later on becomes a habit which is hard to kill (like any other habit).
There are tons of better girls, but you're (not you) not with them because you cant have them. So you go for the best you can get, someone unique and special to you. If she left you tomorrow, you won't find someone to replace her easily. If you're a low value guy then you're less choosy about who's special

Anyway everyone is unique once you get to know them (as cliche as that sounds). Although there are some people with no personality. Many or most girls seem that way, I'll give you that, and are only distinguishable by their looks.
 

Dostoevsky

Tzu
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May 27, 2007
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There are tons of better girls, but you're (not you) not with them because you cant have them. So you go for the best you can get, someone unique and special to you. If she left you tomorrow, you won't find someone to replace her easily. If you're a low value guy then you're less choosy about who's special

Anyway everyone is unique once you get to know them (as cliche as that sounds). Although there are some people with no personality. Many or most girls seem that way, I'll give you that, and are only distinguishable by their looks.
And you don't know that. I'm not talking about famous actress' or some girls you can't get a chance to meet. But so many guys are wrong when they see a hot girl as they instantly think "oh, I can never get this one". The thing is, majority of the guys thinks the same and in the end nobody even tries to get her, and her pussy stays dry. I honestly think guys kill themselves in the process of finding a girl simply because they think way too much. Rejection is not a bad thing and it should not put you in the state to say "I gotta find some girl asap". When you realize you live in an abundance it becomes a rather smooth process and you can pick rather than being desparate.
 

Quetzalcoatl

It ain't hard to tell
Aug 22, 2007
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And you don't know that. I'm not talking about famous actress' or some girls you can't get a chance to meet. But so many guys are wrong when they see a hot girl as they instantly think "oh, I can never get this one". The thing is, majority of the guys thinks the same and in the end nobody even tries to get her, and her pussy stays dry. I honestly think guys kill themselves in the process of finding a girl simply because they think way too much. Rejection is not a bad thing and it should not put you in the state to say "I gotta find some girl asap". When you realize you live in an abundance it becomes a rather smooth process and you can pick rather than being desparate.
That's part of the reason they can't have her. They think they can't and never try. So they end up with the best they think they can have, while there are "better" ones out there
 

Maddy

Oracle of Copenhagen
Jul 10, 2009
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I honestly think guys kill themselves in the process of finding a girl simply because they think way too much. Rejection is not a bad thing and it should not put you in the state to say "I gotta find some girl asap". When you realize you live in an abundance it becomes a rather smooth process and you can pick rather than being desparate.
:agree:

Pulling girls isn't really as complicated as we liek to think nor is it that difficult. Accept rejection as a part of the game, and don't give up after the first rejection.

The difficult part is connecting two separate lives in to a harmonic and synergetic relationship and in the state of the temporarily madness called "being in love" not losing yourself and your integrity.
 

GordoDeCentral

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Apr 14, 2005
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She turned 34 a month ago or so. Not really young.

Back in the day people were marrying when hitting 16-18 and 20+ was considered old and falls into "what the hell are you waiting". But people were more mature (and less informed too I suppose).



The thing is, everyone thinks their gf is unique and special. But she's not. She's just one of the many and chances are high there are tons of girls better than her. It's pretty impossible not to be so.

You just start loving her for what she is and majority of that later on becomes a habit which is hard to kill (like any other habit).
:tup: love them all, don't love any single one
 

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