I think you underestimate how far European (and North American) countries go in retrieving their citizens. They won't blow up all diplomatic ties with a country, sure, but they do put in a lot of effort. More than you'd expect.
Yeah, I get what you mean

. It's why I've never liked Firenze. The only fun memory I have from that city is watching the 2006 World Cup final on a big screen on piazzale Michelangelo.
I also think that most people who travel to Tuscany on a regular basis prefer Siena and South Tuscany in general. You ever been to Lucca (which is not in the South of Tuscany by the way

)?